Sarahsma's Journal

Not sure bout that one but my temper is gnerally pretty long but lately seems short...hmm...hormones? teenagers? Oh well....

Jeannie's son in law the attorney had no idea what she had taken and she wanted credit for future value of the house @ 900K ....what a laught....the current value is around 263....I think? and the highest it ever got to was 650K....

Maybe hey we should sue her for not selling the house and getting better care for our mother??? when the values were high?

I spoke to the estate lady at bof a...and of course she lied to my brother again, she hadn't "taken care of" the estate bill for 16,000! She sent them a payment of 100$...are you %^&*&*kidding me? They laughed..she had NOT made payment arrangements, and were going to turn over the information to their legal department. SHE INFORMED ME JEANNIE WAS NOT A SIGNER ON THE ACCOUNT...NO SUPRISE AND ALSO THAT WHEN SHE PUT THE DEED IN HER HUSBANDS', MINE, AND JIM'S NAME 3 DAYS BEFORE MY MOM DIED THAT WAS ILLEGAL...OOPS...OH WELL, SHE IS GOING DOWN FOR SURE....I WASNT TRYING TO TELL ON HER, I JUST ANSWERED QUESTIONS HONESTLY? THATS WHAT I WAS TOLD WAS DONE, BUT HOW ON EARTH DID SHE KNOW MOM WAS GOING TO DIE??? SOUNDS PRETTY BAD TO ME...LIKE ELDER ABUSE?

My brother defended me to her attorney (son in law) and will attempt to negotiate something a few weeks from now. But she is going to have to give SOMETHING MORE up before we will settle, and Jim thinks we likely will be going to court over this...he has so much legal stuff on his own plate....his divorce, creditors because of his construction business economy...its sad....he is such a sweet guy, just so nice, he has his law degree but not the love for arguing...so he doesnt want to do law....

I know it will all work out, he told me he doesnt care if we live here as long as we want to, that we can never move if we dont want to...I told him as rough and painful to live here with constant constant reminders....of everything...mom, sister, childhood, makes it HARD...BUT I feel so grateful to have a home to clean...and I bless it every week! And every day I try to maintain it to Mom's standards...(cause I know she's watching)....

I love you Mom and Dad....and I miss you and I will give your home the TLC it deserves....

that is as soon as the maintenance becomes less costly....