Join Now

Free, anonymous support from people just like you.

We're on Facebook!
Check out our page!
DS Store is Open
DS t-shirts and more
Advertisement

starynitesky05
Female, 28, Lititz, PA
"hope everyone has a happy thanksgiving"
9:44pm
feeling blah, and needs advice Mood
Saturday, October 24, 2009

just feeling really blah. and im stressed out cuz of all this dept i have. i can't wait til its all paid off. cuz its really stressful, stressing me out. but i have hope it will get better. and im missing my best friend so much. can you guys give me advice on this email i sent her? im afraid i offended her. let me know what you think? Thanks! i wish she had more time for me. i hate always being the one that always needs more. i miss her so much and i can't wait until she emails me back! praying she emails me back soon!

i need some advice on something an email i sent to my friend.  I'm afraid that i offended my friend with this email.  please let me know what you think.  thanks! would this offend you??????

How are you doing? Hows your week so far? I'm doing ok. That's fine about waiting for when Bruce isn't there to have our movie night/girls night. :) I'll look forward to when we can have it. 
I can relate to what you said about your weight and that you always felt big compared to your Mom. My Mom has always been really thin and Angie too. I also always feel like a cow compared to them. I always hated that they can eat whatever they want and not gain anything. I wish that was my problem. Haha.  How do you stay so thin? What is working for you?   I'm working on eating better.  i'm hoping I'll lose some weight soon. :) a few days ago I made some chili and it turned out ok. I was so worried it would taste bad but I actually cooked something without burning it. Haha.
Hope you are having a good day and wanted to tell you I was thinking about you. :)
Love you, amber
Message me and let me know. thank you!

RATE THIS ENTRY:
Inspirational
Moving
Helpful
Creative

Comments

  1. ChristinaCat85

    i didnt see anything in the email that would be offensive. try not to worry over it so much. maybe try to start focusing more of your attention on something else. a hobby of some sort or even your husband. you can try to be creative and come up with new things for you and him to do together. your husband can be a best friend as well and it would probably be better if you tried to focus him more instead of being closer to your friend. he obviously loves you and accepts you for everything you are since he married you so he seems much more deserving of some of this attention.

    while friendships are very important in life, they shouldnt be something that worry over all the time and put too much of our focus and energy into. i'm sure your friend also has things going on in her life and sometimes it gets in the way of being able to hang out or even talk to our friends.

    its wonderful that you care for her so much and you're such a loving person. its rare to find someone like that in this world. but maybe try to step back from your friend. she may feel overwhelmed by such strong feelings from a friend. some people don't really know how to handle someone caring for them a great deal. i'm not saying dont talk to her or anything but just back up for a bit. just let things happen. a good friendship should be effortless and youre obviously putting quite a bit of effort into it.

    you just seem like too nice of a person to have to deal with being anxious over something like this.


    ChristinaCat85

  2. sunflower10

    Sometimes Weight issues and Weight Conversations with others--- can be or can get Touchy---- IF the email is taken out of Context...???? I wouldn't worry about it----- give her some time- and see if she emails you back... Don't Worry so Much--- Try Not to Worry---- I know it's hard... because I Worry all the time..... Love ya- Hang in there.... Miss you lots xo xo xo


    sunflower10

Advertisement

You might also like ...

Hi guys. Well Im 14 and I'm …

Mood By Tegan723 2 Comments

Hi guys. Well Im 14 and I'm confused as hell about myslef and where I stand. I Started having feeling for a girl in …

I am getting worse

Mood By santi4307 4 Comments

I  feel horrible, I need someone to talk to. But who?...

I am doing terrible

Mood By santi4307 1 Comment

My best friend and I are fighting. I have no one. i am so alone. And I feel i am right. maybe my mother is right, I am …

Advertisement
Content on DailyStrength.org is for informational purposes only. We do not provide any medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. More info
Portions of support group and treatment information provided by Wikipedia under the GNU FDL license
Copyright 2006-2009, DailyStrength, Inc. All rights reserved.
Terms of Service | Privacy Policy | Report Abuse | HSW International | HSW China | HSW Brazil