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LillyBlossom 
2:33am, October 21, 2009
I just tried to leave all the groups I'm in and I started to wean down my friends list, but I don't have the patience for it and my groups keep re appearing. I guess I'm not meant to leave them. As for my friends list, it's just as well that I'm frustrated with deleting because I always get myself into trouble with someone when I start trying to make too long of a list more manageable. Just know friends, that if I come back to DS for anylenght of time ther is no possible way I can keep up with allo of you.
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Honey, I ahve sooooo many friends and I see it this way. I cannot possibly comment on ALL journals aor send hugs to everyone all the time. But, the email alerts for journals help me know if anyone is struggling or has something to share and then I know if I should comment or reach out. We are all here in spirit, together, and that is what is most important. I am here if you need me...........something someone said once made sense. "I know we wont communicate all the time, but, if I need someone, I can see if you are online if you are on my friends list." Just makes sense to me, guilt doesnt. I love all my friends, just closer to some than others. Hugs
Shelly4
Don't worry and let this website stress you. It's here to calm you. That happened to me a while back when I was on DS and went back to work. I'd not be on for like 4 days then have 78 messages/hugs and just be panicked. You just write like you did and tell people your busy and you appreciate them. I have tried deleting goals also with no luck. If I have a "friend" I haven't heard from in like a month, I delete them. Useless. Always remember people lives are always changing and their duties to. Real friends will understand! Good luck Hugs Jennay
listless
All of these people have all of the right answers for you. The website isn't that you have to keep up on everyday, but more so when you need the support. I can't possibly keep up with the house, kids, school, private friends, friends online, birthdays, get my point. God doesn't want you to be depressed or sad for the matter, he wants you to lead the best life you can.
JChrist4U
Thanks to each of you. I was on a rant yesterday. Today I know that I"m mad at my illnesses and not at people. The groups made me angry because I felt/feel that nothing is going to help. But that is my disease talking, not me.
LillyBlossom