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mviana
6:00pm, November 8, 2008
m always on edge, it must be my age, always on my daughters back, shes 18, but shes precious to me. i dont want 2 let her go, she has a baby, Isabella 16months, another one that is precious 2 me, i feel i expect 2 much of myself & therefore 2 hard on myself, how can i b less brutal & b more kind, m really trying to make an effort with trich, but trying needs to become stopping just 4 a second 2 a time everytime![]()






It sounds like you are so stressed that pulling is your only outlet. You seem to have a lot of tension building up inside, and nowhere to put it. You can't put it all on your daughter so you take it out on yourself by pulling. Take time for your own needs. It will mean that everything else doesn't get done perfectly, but that's okay. You matter too.
ellen80
thank u 4 your encouragement, every little bit helps; i'm sending good wishes your way, have a great day.
mviana