Scare....
November 23, 2009 11:19pm
I haven't written about it yet, but I had a scare here the other night. Someone tried to get into my home via the side yard sliding glass …
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About Me
Wish4BigSky
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About Me
Divorced for over a year after 12 yrs. of marriage. Ex left and has been living with his GF. Been on this site since the very beginning of the breakup and am doing SOOO much better. I have started dating and living again. I have always believed everything happens for a reason, but now I realize just HOW good those reasons were. I deserve someone to CHERISH me as I do them, not degrade me. I am coming into my own and looking at it as an adventure!
Divorced for over a year after 12 yrs. of marriage. Ex left and has been living with his GF. Been on this site since the very beginning of the breakup and am doing SOOO much better. I have started dating and living again. I have always believed everything happens for a reason, but now I realize just HOW good those reasons were. I deserve someone to CHERISH me as I do them, not degrade me. I am coming into my own and looking at it as an adventure!
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I love to read, write, and dance, Not only like no one's watching, but not caring if they do! LOL. I also have an interest in photography and history.
I love to read, write, and dance, Not only like no one's watching, but not caring if they do! LOL. I
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Like an Idiot......
November 15, 2009 10:17pm
Like an idiot I have allowed myself to stress too much and have not been able to rest well for about a week. (You ever have those dreams where …
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Just felt like hugging you....Happy Thanksgiving..
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i had that saying once. I love it!
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I don't know sweetie, I just don't know. sorry
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And I'm headed to the gym at lunch to do a killer work out and release some of this stress. Does wonders. Have a great day!
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It was intended to make you laugh. Helps with the stress the situation brings as a release. I am doing my best today. Someone wrote a comment early on in my DS experience that really is ringing true right now. That I was in such despair because I was stuck between the reality of the relationship and what I wanted to believe it was. So damned true, and I am really thinking about that today. Still hurts. But I am going on with life. Thanks for asking. And you?
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Close Breakups & Divorce
My marriage of 12 years is coming to an end. I have been the one who has made the home, took care of our 10 yr.old son, worked a full time job and still let the soon to be ex have his Tuesday night boys' night once a week for the last 13 yrs. I supported him in buying and building his business. I understood his being gone for business, it's just all of the "play time"....
Treatments
- Al-Anon Working / Worked
- Haven't ben a member for a long time. I don't know if the STBX is alcoholic, but I dug out my book and it helps.
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- We tried this after he cheated on me 6 yrs. ago. It didn't work at all.
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- I am trying.
- Music Working / Worked
- Depending on my mood there's a song for everything. Right now it's "Over You" by Daughtry. YES!
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- I have the support of many friends and my X's family has been great!
- Talking Working / Worked
- Wonderful people, wonderful friends! I am getting there.
Close Infidelity
My STBX cheated on me about 6 yrs. ago and, even though we attended therapy, we were unable to make it work. Recently, he left me for a skank that has been a friend for over 10 yrs. He will not admit how long they have been having an affair, but it has been going on fr quite a while.
Treatments
- Divorce Working / Worked
- We are in the process of a divorce. After the initial shock of him leaving, I have found myself growing stronger as a person and really discovering just how much BETTER I deserve.
- Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
- I am trying, but he is not making it easy!
Open Single Parenting
Recently found out about another affair the STBX has been having. We are divorcing and my son, who is 11 YO, is having a very difficult time with it all. He is SUCH a good kid. I am worried this will somehow scar him.
