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Holidays are here. My oldes moved back with mom a few weeks ago. She started getting senioritis, and was missing the bus often. I would go get her or hire a taxi, but it just got to be to often. The school started giving her detentions, and she blamed me for that., After two weeks I started paying extra money to her mom based on the new child support number for 2009 in Massachusetts. Her mom seems a little distressed, but wanted to control everything the kids was doing. The daughter made the honor roll three times since living with me, and it is not unnussual for mom to want to run the show when things are going well. My oldest will be 18 in February. Mom is helping her fill out her college applications, I wondering if this 18 year is ready to be on her own.
In anycase I've been able to watch Monday night football for the first time in 20 years. I have gone on a diet, since I have some down time and I normally need extra time to rest when I'm trying to loss weight
Well August 29 and school has started for my oldes. I took both sisters to see their cousins in Ny this summer, and my oldest went with me to a conferance in Seattle. THe stbx and I see the counciliator next week. She gave me a lecture on how she is paying for her own health insurance now and I should give her more money. I told her that was ridiculous. The car she had towed to my parking lot, is running wonderfully now. Things seem good except I am still concerned for my youngest, who has had two panic attacks with her mother which have caused her to get sick, I am not sure what to do about this yet. Soccer season has started and I will see my youngest more often
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Kids finished up their school vacation. Oldest went to NYC with her mom and they got stranded in NY bus terminal because of snow. Neither daughter or mom is much trouble this weekend they are both too tired.
YOungest stayed with me. I got upset when the stbx called, she was super nice. Told me I could drive the youngest to all her soccer games away (I ussually coach). Practicaly begged me when it came time to bring the youngest back. It upset me because she sounded like the women I fell in love with. She is doing this because my lawyer and I are putting the squeze on her financially, and she is being cut to part time in her present job. Too bad she doesn't believe in love conquers all theory.
Meanwhile I have cut back on my second job, and I need to find a way to cut back on my day job which I will do when I have payed my taxes.
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Hi Boba I know when the x seems like the person you fell in love with you feel a loss,but that will change and it will get easier,at least you get the kids alot you are an awesome daddy!Love pamie
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Well it been a few days since the divorce was finalized. THe ex was mad she didn't get a trial (she wouldn't have comeout to good), and didn't get much of what she was looking for, just the standard divorce. I explained to my youngest that if she ever decided she wanted to live with me and her sister she would need to tell a GAL. Maybe now we can get on with life
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