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searchingmom 
One of my troubled teens has to go to Seattle for a few days to have to testify about the abuse she suffered in her last adoptive home. This is quiet tramatic for her and being pg by her adopted father makes it even worse for her, She does not to have to see him yet she has tosit in front of him and tell the court what he did. DNA confirmed that adoptive father was the baby's father I just have no understanding with that why they need to have her go through this garbage.
I intend to make this a fun trip as well for her somehow. I think I will take her to the space needle and go on a few ferry boat rides an take in a movie or something. This poor girl is totally tramatized by this whole odeal. This is why I suggest to young people considering adoption to insist on getting to know the family personally to whom your child is going, take your mom along if you are comfortable in doing so. or ask me to come I'd go around the world to keep children from going through this.
We will be gone until Saturday, so until then I will be praying for all my friends here too.
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I am an advocate for keeping your child or definately getting to know and keep in touch w/your child. They still are your children by God. Ypour responsibility. I have plans to start an adoptive foundation some day. I dont want any child to go thru what I have been thru. My prayers are w/you. Love betsy
heaventobetsy
You are so amazing. Good luck with the whole trip an everything that involves is. Keep up the good works you're already doing.
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skj
WE are back, and things went much better than I could have hoped for. I may getting all three of the teenage girls this other family had adopted the judge was friend and he says like I was thinking these girls were raised to this point together and so he feels it would be to thier best interest to keep them together if DSHS thinks I have adquate room. He also terminated the other adoptive parents rights and unsealed tha adoption records so that I could get the childrens bio parents info. WOW is all I can say, Heavenly Father is so good He supplies all my needs and desires. I did not these girls seperated any longer than was necessary for this hearing about their all being pg by the adoptive father. and He graciously put the hearing Judge in the same mind as mine, and also one who knew me and the work I do with troubled teens and backs me so much in many ways. I am sure they will have no problem in letting the girls all be here as I have such a big home and the girls will have plenty of love and support as well as counsulers her to talk to. This is a 20 acre place that I have here with lots of walking space and a huge home 12 bedrooms. And right now only 4 are being used. Lots of room for the girls. Heavenly Father gave my husband wisdom when he built this house out here for us. We built the house to become foser parents of troubled teens and now he is gone back to Heavenly Father I am here alone with my children to carry on the work and Loving every minute of it.
searchingmom
I am glad to hear it went so well
authentic
Well, I have all three girls and I have a very pissed off welfare worker because I will not allow her to bully these girls into signing off their parental rights without some help making the desicion of a life time with those who know how it feels to give up thier children and what is the best for all concerned. Oh well as my note pad says "Shit-tzu Happens" withthe puppy tracks all around the outside edge of the pages. one has to have a bit of a sense of humor when dealing with welfare workers like this one. Boy is she gun ho for these girls to sign over their parental rights. Must have hot home willing to pay for infants, and do not think for a minute that there are not Black Market adoptions going on out there even in this day of age. in fact it is very common here in the states.
searchingmom
I think that story is terrible, I agree about getting to know the family first.
Ces
You are an angel & I thank God you are there for these poor girls. They have been through so much already & have to go through the tramatic experience of child birth now - at such a young age. The bio father's rights should be terminated, needless to say, but these girls need to take their time deciding what they want to do. Having to part with their babies on top of everything else they've gone through might very well just push them right over the brink of sanity. I seriously do not think they should make any decision until they have actually given birth to their babies and spent a few days with them. It will be very odd for them, though, if they do decide to keep them since their cousins will also be their half-siblings. I pray everything works out according to God's will because I know up TO this point, everything that has happened to these girls was NOT God's will. That adoptive father had free will & he abused his free will & abused those little girls. How very sad for them. I hope you have access to good counseling & therapy for all of them. Bless you for your ministry.
GMaWilli
Thank God that there are people out there like you. Young girls who are pregnant need all the help that they can get. Love and understanding helps so much. I remember when I told my foster parents that I was pregnant, the first thing they did was ground me, no emotional support or anything. I would love to someday open my home like you have. I know that there are plenty of young girls out there who make mistakes or are taken advantage of like your girls, that just need someone to talk to. How old did you say the youngest one was? I thought I saw 11 years old. I hurt for her and her sisters. They need all the love that you can give them and then some. If there is anything that I can do please let me know. I know that I am far away but I would like to try.
I hope that you will someday find your other daughter. My prayers are with you!
AliWil
I just praise God that you were there for these young girls. People who get panties in a bunch over puppy mills, ought to be informed about this. It is an untold story
BobCJ