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Just got the call and it was a negative result. Obviously, we're both really sad it didn't work. It was really hard to see my husband yesterday because he was really upset. If there was a man who deserved to be a Dad, its him. He's such an amazing guy. Neither of us have give up hope though.
The nurse said Doc will give us a call on Wednesday, though exactly what she's going to say when she calls, I haven't got a clue. DH and I are going to take a couple of days to sort of process this one, and then figure out what our next steps are. What I'm trying to wrap my mind around is why it worked that first time,even for a short while, and now its not working. Do I try a new doctor???
Life goes on, and I haven't lost hope, but I am really sad today.
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I am so sorry. I am saying a prayer that your RE gives you a new plan and reinforces your hope. That's what we all have and each day is one day closer to becoming a mom! So grieve but keep strength in your hearts!
FNP
So sorry sweetie. I know the feeling all too well. Just know that it works sometimes and sometimes it doesnt. Just got to get that one great egg. I doubt you need a new doctor. Don't give up, it will happen with perserverence! I am praying for you and your dh. Give yourself some time.
xoxo
JeanieMarie
I am very sorry.. I don't have an answer for you, but I am thinking of you and your husband. Second opinions never hurt!
Shanny2007
Hugs sweetie. I'm so sorry that this cycle didn't work after all that you've been through. I think about the four of us DS girls meeting up last November. If the stats were 1 in 4, I'd be OK being the 1 that didn't get pregnant knowing that you three did. I have made such a peace with God and this infertility and adoption process. I can only pray that somehow on your journey, you can have your hopes and dreams fullfilled, or that you will be able to find the genuine peace I have. Hang in there sweetie.
htag
I am so sorry Shea! I wish i had all the answers to your questions. I can only imagion how frustrated you are feeling, hurt, let down etc. You have a great attitude and seem to be handling this very well. All i can say is continue to keep your head held high and your time will come. It's just unfortunetly now up to us to decide when that is. I will email you with my doctors information. She is truly the best and i hope that if you choose to get a second opinion that you decide to take her on.
dogmom2
I'm so sorry, I was really hoping for a different outcome. I agree you have a great attitude about all of this and I'm glad you're not giving up. I think it's a good idea to see a new doctor and get a fresh perspective. I really liked my doc as well, his main office is in Hoffman Estates, if you want his info let me know.
Jen2279
I've been off for a few months and am just now updating myself on everybody. So sorry to see your last try didn't work. If you're able to get a 2nd opinion, it may be worth looking into. My DH and I used our first RE simply because he was who my OB referred us too but last year our insurance terminated their relationship with his practice and we were forced to change. Our new RE is the same one Jen2279 used and let me just tell you, our last our RE did 3 IVF's and 2 FET's all with BFN's...our new RE got as a BFP with our one last IVF that insurance was going to cover. One major difference was that he removed a fibroid I had that our last RE said wasn't in the way of anything. Of course we can't say for sure if that was the only problem but it's interesting how our results changed with our 2nd RE.
brenskopf