One-Year Anniversary of my Mother's Death
October 26, 2009 1:16pm
I find it hard to believe that this Wednesday, Oct.28th, my mom will have been gone for a whole year. These last two years with my brother, …
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UNBELIEVABLE THREE YEARS
February 17, 2009 12:48pm
In the last three years I have lost my grandmother, my 1st cousin, my uncle, an older brother, my father, my mother and my cat. Even though …
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My Mom DIED TODAY!!!
October 28, 2008 9:14pm
After fighting cancer for the last two months, my Mother died of cancer today. She was diagnosed with it in August, had surgery, which the doctors …
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Mom had cancer & Dad just died
September 8, 2008 9:58am
Approximatly a month ago, I found out my Mom had pancrease cancer. The doctors were able to remove her pancrease and got all of the …
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Journal Entry for February 12, 2008
February 12, 2008 1:59pm
It's been a year ago today since my brother Danny died of a massive heart . It is still sooooo hard to believe that he's gone & …
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I know it takes a lot of effort and energy just to try to be ok. After my mom's death anniversary I needed some time to pull myself together. I agree with you it's easier when you have someone and I do feel fortunate. But I miss my mom so much and there's nothing I could do to fill the void. Whenever you need to talk, just know that I'm here. I appreciate our conversation very much. It helps me a lot.
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Your thoughts and prayers gave me strength on Saturday. I was sad, but I didn't cry. Thank you for thinking of me. How are you doing?
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I pray every day that our pain lessens and allows us to move forward. My emotions vary from day to day. I'll go visit my parents grave site tomorrow. I feel vulnerable because last time I was there it got me down and I cried so much. Hope tomorrow I'll have more strength. Please, think of me. I'll be thinking of you.
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I wish I could fast forward to the day where we are happy again.
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I know its not wednesday, but you were in my thoughts today. Hugs!
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a SiblingMy brother recently died of a massive heart attack & immediately after that the man I loved for over 10 yrs lost his job & had to move to another state in order to obtain work. I am grieving the lost of 2 people who were very close & special to me. I feel very sad & depressed all the time.
Treatments
- Crying Working / Worked
- The sadness can hit me at any given moment & I will break down and cry
- Grief Counseling Working / Worked
- Trying to find a grief counseling group in NYC that I can attend to hopefully work through the grief
- Prayer Working / Worked
- I pray on a regular basis but sometimes the grief is so strong I don't even feel like praying
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- I would prefer to be in group counseling where I can speak & interact with people who are/has experienced the same feelings of sadness & grief
- Keeping Busy Working / Worked
- I am trying to go out & interact with others but am not really in the mood most of the time so I will cancel at the last minute
Close Breakups & Divorce
Broke up apprx 8 mos ago. Tried to remain friends but then he wouldn't return my calls. I believe he went back to his ex. but he denies it. Now he's calling again & want to talk. I'm not taking his calls now. Let him know how it feels to be rejected.
Treatments
- Leave Working / Worked
- I would just take "Me Days" when I would spend the whole day focusing on myself (treating myself to the movies, getting hair/nais done, etc)
- Music Working / Worked
- Played a lot of sad songs or songs that reminded me of him to cry it out. Usually felt better afterwards
- Reading Working / Worked
- Reading, "In the Meantime". Excellent reading for when you are in betwn relationships. Points out the differenct emotions we will experience.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Initially wanted to talk about the breakup all the time. Not so much any more but it did help talking with friends & family.
- Time Working / Worked
- Just taking time out for me. No answering phones, no e-mails, no talking to friends or family for the day. Felt great to escape
