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KCJ 
5:22pm, September 8, 2009
WTF has happened to people?
My daughter works full time and because her schedule isn't that of someone working in an office she looses her kids
Yes you heard me right
my daughter works full time and because of that she lost custody of the kids
oh she gets to see them 3 out of the 4 weekends of the month and "as her schedule allows"
fuck the boys start school now so "as her schedule allows" is out the door
We will have another set of alcoholics
just like their father and grandfather for how many genetations back does it go I don't know
I was so hoping things would get straightened out this one but the lawyers and judge think a drunk makes a better parent than a working mother
fuck this whole thing
I am about ready to commit mayham over this
why the fuck bother fighting the fucked up system
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I managed to do my divorce from the alcoholic with no formal custody arrangement. But my kids were nearly grown, and they divorced me when I divorced her. The only thing I do re "the system" is avoid it like the plague that it is. By the way, in case you have not already figured it out, the system has a very alccoholic personality. Alcoholism is characterized, in my opinion, by extreme immaturity, and terminal selfishness. It is broken, KCJ. I cannot see a fix. But I do not participate. I do what I can as one light worker, to carry light into the darkness. And yes, this does royally redden my gastric mucosa. Most unpleasant.
BobCJ
Judy, this is SO wrong! That has ZERO resemblance to TRUE JUSTICE! What the hell happened to the welfare of the children?
harry1945
Oh my Dear ...I am so very sorry...I had to fight for 15 years for my boy and his best interests....in my case his father was abusive......but I did learn not to lose faith , i learned to document everything.....and most of all keep the hope alive as it is your own flesh and blood you are fighting for and that is what matters.Many hugs of love and strength to you and your girls and those wonderful grandsons!!!
ShellDM
Oh honey I am SO sorry - I don't even know what to say. SO unfair - I've been "victimized" by the courts during my divorce and custody but thankfully my ex couldn't stay sober long enough to pull it off - which was lucky because when he's sober, he's devastatingly professional, charming, and can put on a show as the most amazing dad in the universe. He had a lot of people fooled. I won my son but lost my family as they didn't believe me
PeaceN2You
You must be at your wits end. Your love for your daughter and your love for the Grandchildren and her love for her children. God it is just so unfair. My daughter divorced an alcoholic who put her through the wringer. He would not work so he lost his case, but he does not pay child support Now he drinks and does drugs and the boys are 11 and 14 and don't want to go see him. He runs the guilt on them and they go and then they call my daughter to come get them because he is so far gone. Maybe Grandchildrens father will just keep it up and hang himself. It just makes me sick how the system is. Your right WTF is going on. My daughters X pulled a knife on her the other night (they live in the same town), and when she called 911 and the police came they said there was nothing they could do because a crime was not commited. WHAT. That's right you have to get hurt first, nice laws. I will pray for you and your daughter and granchildren. Don't give up hope. Hugs Naomi xo
NaomiJane
OMG this is pure insanity!!! My heart goes out to you, your daughter and your family. What a terrible situation and the system should be ashamed. Basically your daughter who is working hard for her boys and was just told she would be better off a loser like that ass. Eff that! You tell your daughter to keep her head high- hopefully someone within the system will see this injustice and help her get her kids back! I know for sure you and yours are in my prayers.
OpheliaRising
That is so wrong. What the heck! I hate this goverment. It is always in our business and your daughter must be so upset. I don't know what to say. Prayers may help.
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