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  • About Me

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    rmaia

    Female, 33
    North East, KS, USA
    Member since April 30, 2007

    • About Me

      wow...suddenly this is hard for me to do...I am a mother to 4 furry children as well as 2 active boys, and grandmother to one guinea pig recently...I am newly employed by the state and trying to rethink my identity as I have become a part of the machine...lol...systems advocacy right?!

      wow...suddenly this is hard for me to do...I am a mother to 4 furry children as well as 2 active boys, and grandmother to one guinea pig recently...I am newly employed by the state and trying to rethink my identity as I have become a part of the machine...lol...systems advocacy right?!

    • Interests

      My animals and children, painting, drawing, photography, serigraphy, reading, sociology and research, cooking, travel (yeah like I get to do that now!!!)

      My animals and children, painting, drawing, photography, serigraphy, reading, sociology and research,

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  • Journal

    • Journal Entry for March 15, 2008

      Mood March 15, 2008 12:43am

      Good evening with the girls. Bunko- I used to dread it...I struggle to socialize with people. I am feeling so much more comfortable in my own skin. I …
    • Journal Entry for March 10, 2008

      Mood March 10, 2008 12:45am

      Anyone else hating daylight savings time? I cant sleep. I am tired, but it is too early according to my clock.... All is well. Went to see my mom …
    • Dreams and making sense of life

      Mood March 8, 2008 3:22am

      A few nights ago I had a strange dream- and I dont remember dreams often or have a whole dream that is powerful in its emotions. I was living at home …

    • Journal Entry for March 5, 2008

      Mood March 5, 2008 9:09pm

      I have been literally non-stop busy. We found a house- put in an offer and have decided to do this and then work on and sell ours- with no way to …
    • Journal Entry for February 21, 2008

      Mood February 21, 2008 9:14pm

      Exhausted and sad tonight. New job going okay- working on numbers stuff...necessary but not fun and a bit fristrating when sets dont match. AJ is …

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      Hope you're OK - it's been awhile. Thinking of you and miss you. Faith

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      Are you gone from DS?? I miss you!

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      HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!

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      I hope life has been treating you well.

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      Thinking of you....

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  • Goals

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    Goal End Date is Mar 9, 08 623 days ago.
    Goal Completed on Jan 9, 08
  • Support Groups

    • Close Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)

      My oldest son is struggling, he is a new big brother and has vacillated in behaviors- from refusal to cooperate, to wetting himself, to inattention...some of this may be a shield as there are tensions in the home at times, but making excuses does not help him with life skills. We need him to become more self confident, and a team player!

      Treatments

      Love Working / Worked
      Some benefits here- some self confidence growth- but he still is refusing to listen and at times refusing the choices offered...this takes a lot of work and patience
    • Close Depression

      ADHD and biological depression- postpartum depression.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Welbutrin was the most effective when combined with psychotherapy. Ritalin increased frustraion and create agitation....
      Biofeedback Working / Worked
      Assisted with other steps in being able to recognize and manage my anxiety over driving money etc- to be able to take steps forward in life and control depression
    • Open Parenting Newborns & Infants (0-1)

      I have a 6 month old son. I am a working mother- we also have a 4yr old brother and a 19 year old half brother. I am trying to breast feeed- but pumping at work is an issue which is stressful...so we are supplementing. This child is all smiles, and the easisest going member of my home.

    • Open ADHD / ADD

      I was diagnosed ADD at 17yrs old. I have tried biofeedback, Ritalin and Welbutrin...and plain coping strategies. I hate most meds as I have noticed they affect my ability to brainstorm and think creatively...but allow me to do more analytical or methodical processes...Depression also entered into the picture

      Treatments

      Ritalin Not Working
      could not think creativley
      Wellbutrin Working / Worked
      worked when I used it...I forgot to take it ...am working with orgasnization now
      Biofeedback Somewhat Helpful
      hard yo use when already stressed...
    • Open Homelessness

      In my job I have worked with those who are/have been homeless.

    • Open Families of Prisoners

      I work with individuals who have had loved ones incarcerated. I also work with those who are o probation to assist with finding employment and reducing chances of reincarceration. I want to be able to better help others, by joining this community, through resources and more empathetic supports.

    • Open Breastfeeding

      Breastfed both boys. THe youngest is 6 months...and I am struggling to pump, having to supplement, even after taking supplements.. I just want healthy kids

    • Open Family Issues

      I grew up in a home that most people envied. My mother was overcompensating. My father was absent in may ways, dealing with his depression, or was overstrict. In therapy I saw this and was made to realize that his not speaking to me as a form of punishment for months at a time WAS abuse. I am now struggling to parent and very afraid that I made the same choice with my partner and am playig out my mothers role,but my husband is far more verbally angry towards me than my father was with my mother.

      Treatments

      Family Therapy Somewhat Helpful
      well at a early age not helpful. Marriage counseling helped me to understand more of what is currently going on, but does littel to deal with his issues.
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      very hard to let down my guard.
    • Open Career Changes

      recently laid off from a non-profit job I loved, due to program closure. Interested in exploring other options, I love people , teaching and art...I have had interest in healthcare industry since I was a child and followed my father doing rounds at the hospital....

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