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Anu 
I feel horrible right now. I know its a passing thing, but I do.
I just... I feel like people don't respect me. And I know the bigger issue is that I don't respect myself a hell of a lot, but when people don't respect me or I don't feel like they do when they don't respect what I do, I get really upset. And then it's "just Anu losing her temper again" and not like anyone actually cares that I'm upset - only that I'm bothering them because of it. And then I feel like no one actually cares about me at all. And then they (my family) says that there's something totally different about caring about a person and caring about what they do (I've never been good at/understood this separating people and what they do/what's important to them so completely). Maybe I *do* have to re-evaluate the fact that I want what I do to be valued (and as more than "aw, it's cute", more like actually taking time to appreciate the effort I put into things).
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i can understand what you mean by what a person does reflects upon them and their morals. but then it kind of makes sence that you can love someone and not care about what they do. i think that this is just a personal choise. i kinda believe like you do if they can't act right and have good morals then how can you seperate their personalties into two different persons? i don't think you can. that's like saying boy i really like him but he robs old ladies for a living and i'm just suppose to over look that part. i think you right in this anu..........debbie
dkpape
I get the same treatment at my home (house) from my wife. I think seeing me in pain triggers her and she gets in denial and confrontation mode. I feel I don't get no respect at home so therefore they get none from me when I am in pain and I start throwing a childish tantrum to make them do what do what th
WJGonza
(continued from above) they won't do voluntarily...It doesn't work for me...Aren't they suppose to feel my pain more? LOL
WJGonza