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    EllieD

    Female, 65
    Voorhees, NJ, USA
    Member since April 25, 2007

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      My hubby has advanced dementia and have son with brain tumor need support with how to handle my hubby. Thanks Ellie

      My hubby has advanced dementia and have son with brain tumor need support with how to handle my hubby. Thanks Ellie

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      From DandD May 13, 2007

      I would be glad to talk with you. Would be please be my friend My husband is in his middle stage. He has had it since 1992 and has staying in the middle most of this time with aricept and Namenda. thank God for that, but his Father died with it and we helped him in late stage It was rough I feel what you are going through. Hope to be your friend Darlene

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      From DeeAnn April 25, 2007

      My husband is a diabetic parapalegic stroke survivor with Mixed Dementia. He has had TIA's, which are small ministrokes and is in the early stages of Advanced Alzheimer's. At times he was angry and lashed out at whoever was handy, mainly me. As he cannot move himself, it is my responsibility to bathe, dress, get him in and out of bed. If left to himself, he would probably just stay in bed. So, I know how frustrated you can become just dealing with everyday care. I have been known to tell my husband that someone was expected to come over just to get him up and then tell him later that their plans had changed or that we might have to go out for something. We even made a few trips to the store that we could have avoided. It is terrible to have to fib, but it is sometimes necessary. Now it is a little easier as he doesn't remember things for very long. So, he often doesn't remember if we are going out or not. Unfortunately, he also doesn't remember instructions I give him to help him roll over or to enable me to get his lift pad under him to get him up. Every day is an adventure. Be patient and realize it is the disease and not your husband you are dealing with.

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      Stage: Advanced

      My hubby has advanced dementia it is getting worse Dr wants him to go to hospital dbl amputee Dr wants him to go to hospital and he refuses I feel trapped and lonely not knowing what to do? He has home care, but he is getting worse. I have an ill son 42 also. Just to talk helps me. Thanks Elli

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      Aricept Working / Worked
      He only takes 1 in morning and I have to make sure he takes them
      Amputation Working / Worked
      onlywearspjswon'tuseartificial legs walks8yr old germanshepardw/scooterknowsdogsnamesnotpeople only let him out 2 times with our dog
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