The kids are home & ...
November 8, 2009 11:30am
My kids are home this week end & by the end of the night last night, I was feeling such saddness that I was about to explode. I had …
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Rob & I were married for 25 yrs & we have quadruplets. I've been so blessed by my children. I'm a nurse who works full-time in a geriatric psych unit. I am a Christian & an ordained minister in my church. I have been a Hospice nurse in the past & an ICU nurse. My only sister died 5 yrs ago & that was really terrible but nothing prepared me for the grief & total lost feeling after Rob's passing.
Rob & I were married for 25 yrs & we have quadruplets. I've been so blessed by my children. I'm a nurse who works full-time in a geriatric psych unit. I am a Christian & an ordained minister in my church. I have been a Hospice nurse in the past & an ICU nurse. My only sister died 5 yrs ago & that was really terrible but nothing prepared me for the grief & total lost feeling after Rob's passing.
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quadmum commented on their journal entry The kids are home & ... 11:37pm
I've been working a lot. Running around. I'm sharing my car w/my dtr who is home. She thins she may…
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Thank you for the hug and kind words. Yeah I live real close to the Community of Christ headquarters, drive thru there a few times a week! Lovely area of the city. It's a small world!
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Rob died after being a bad diabetic for 16 yrs. When I say 'bad' I mean he ignored the disease. He ended up w/so many complications from the DM. He eventually had his 2nd heart attack & they couldn't do anything in the cath lab. He was on a balloon pump & a ventillator & finally we had to withdraw treatment. That is a horribly hard thing to do but he had no hope & wouldn't have wanted to linger on in the state he was in. I still feel haunted by my decission. As though I caused his death.
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- I've gone to see a bereavement counselor from a Hospice organization I used to work for. She is wonderful & I don't think I would be as well as I am if she wasn't helping me.
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