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It seems that he can't seem to get it. He acts as if nothing is going on. He came to bed early last night and held me -which he hasn't done in a very long time. He is generally up until 1-3 a.m. playing video games or texting with other players.
I can't seem to shake it.
He did a couple of loads of laundry yesterday, but still hadn't done the dishes that I had asked him Sunday night if he would do Monday morning. I finally gave in and did them last night, after working 2 hours overtime and knowing I had to come in this morning early.
Sometimes I find myself - making the excuse that I have to work later or come in early - just so I don't have to be in the same house with him. Sometimes the pain and hurt is so great, I can't stand to be near him. Yeah, I have plenty to do at work - my job is demanding and when you run a business there is always something to do and I've been very busy lately. Lot's of work to review and get ready for clients.
It seems that it will take me forever to figure out what I need to do. I gave him an ultimatium about 6 months ago, and he didn't even flinch. He hid the fact that he was communicating with the "woman" on the video games and texting, but I found that he had hid her phone number on one of his business contacts numbers. Sneaky huh?
Maybe the rest of the day will be better. He is supposed to work today - the first day in I can't remember how long. At least I will have no expectations about what will happen at home today and at least the kitchen was clean when I left this morning.
