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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/Spouse

I AM A BANKER WORKING ON THE OUTSKIRTS OF LAGOS,AND LIVING SOME 1HR DRIVE FROM HOME.I LOST MY 25YR OLD WIFE TO A RECKLESS BIKE RIDERON THE 13TH OCTOBER 2009,SHE WAS 8MONTHS PREGNANT,AND ON HER WAY FOR ANTE NATAL CLINICS.IT'S SO GRIEVING,I'VE TRIED TO BE STRONG BUT IT'S TOUGH TO COME TO TERMS WITH,I SUPPOSE AM THE YOUNGEST WIDOWER I'VE MET

Treatments

Keeping Busy Too Soon to Tell

I RESUMED TO WORK EXACTLY TWO WEEKS AFTER THE INICDENT AND HAVE TRIED TO BURY MYSELF INTO AS MUCH WORK AS I CAN,SOMEHOW,I GET TO EXPERIENCE THE SILENT FEELINGS OF LONELINESS

Prayer Somewhat Helpful

IT'S REALLY DIFFICULT TO COME TERMS WITH,BUT CONSIDERING MY SPIRITUAL BACKGROUND,I'VE TRIED TO SOLILOQUY AND MEDITATE ON THE INSIDE OF ME

Talking Working / Worked

THIS REALLY HELPED ME IN THE VERY FIRST DAYS.I TRIED TO DO THE ENCOURAGING BEFORE PPLE EVEN SPOKE.THERE'S A VERY HUGE GULF IN MY LIFE,AND I GET IRRITATED AT SO MANY THINGS AROUND