Another Day in Paradise
November 21, 2009 10:16pm
It seems like things just keep going wrong since my Bob passed. First the water heater, then the pickup needed a gas tank. Now his prize 1964 Chevy …
JanetCa
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About Me
JanetCa
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About Me
Until my husband passed like alot of others here, my world revolved around him.I was a wife, still am, a mother one beautiful daughter, a true gift her dad named her. Charity-meaning: a gift of love. He was a true romantic. A grandmother of 3; 16, 12, &9. I'm a autoworker, I build humvees for the military.
Until my husband passed like alot of others here, my world revolved around him.I was a wife, still am, a mother one beautiful daughter, a true gift her dad named her. Charity-meaning: a gift of love. He was a true romantic. A grandmother of 3; 16, 12, &9. I'm a autoworker, I build humvees for the military.
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Interests
I love to garden, I find digging in the dirt brings me closer to nature and to God. When we younger and Bob was healther we enjoyed riding, taking vacations on his Harley-Davidson, one of the big touring bikes, We have a classic Pick-up that we used to go to Cruise in with. See it was all about him.
I love to garden, I find digging in the dirt brings me closer to nature and to God. When we younger and
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Recent Activity
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3 journal comments, 2 journal posts, 2 hugs received
Tuesday
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JanetCa commented on JPFlynn’s journal entry Wedding Anniversary 4:52pm
John Dear John, I feel your sadness and joy all at once. What a beautiful life the two of you shared!…
Sunday
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JanetCa commented on JPFlynn’s journal entry Making a New Life 11:12am
John, Your right this sight is a sad but pleasant distraction, that being said. I too know that lost…
Saturday
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JanetCa wrote a journal entry: Another Day in Paradise 10:16pm
It seems like things just keep going wrong since my Bob passed. First the water heater, then the pickup…
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JanetCa changed their mood to Bad 10:16pm
Friday
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JanetCa wrote a journal entry: Thanksgiving? 4:25pm
Well it's almost Thansgiving, I'm not so sure it's goanna be a good one or not. Most of the…
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Journal
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Thanksgiving?
November 20, 2009 4:25pm
Well it's almost Thansgiving, I'm not so sure it's goanna be a good one or not. Most of the family will be together but of course well be …
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VA
November 18, 2009 5:26pm
Sometimes somethings never cease to amaze me. Today after sending out an e-mail I heard from a VFW service officer, Looks like his goanna file a …
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Semper Fi
November 16, 2009 7:30pm
Well the deed is none, I placed my husbands ashes in the National cemetary at Fort Custer Battle Creek MI today. It was really difficult to face the …
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Out To Lunch
November 15, 2009 6:41pm
Well I did it! I took my daughter and we went to her dad's favorite coffee shop for lunch today.
There we were there having a lite snack, and …
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Hugbook
Flower
One day at a time and one crises at a time. Sounds like they are not derailing you, just bending. There will be better days and this too shall pass (although it's hard for me to see too right now). Hugs to you!
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Flower
Girl, you need a big bunch of flowers and a big old Aussie HUG.Don't know what to say, you're deep in the valley of the shadow of death. Death is so sad, cancer is a scourge. My heart goes out to you. Just live each day as best you can.... Love John
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High Five
Glad they are recognising negligence - it would give you comfort and a bit of closure. John
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Hug
What a happy and blessed entry Janet - he must have been quite a guy; and what sweet shop owners too! Huhs for you. John
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I’m With You
Feeling so alone in this is the hardest part for me most days. I too just say "I have my moments" and feel like that's just all people want to hear. They don't know what my new normal is going to be and neither do I. It's a process and a lonely one for the most part. But sometimes I'll have a good day and think, I'll get there ant that gives me hope. Just keeping the door open for possibilities and loads of change. I know that the first year is a crazy time and not to expect much relief, but when I have a good moment, I acknowledge it and say out loud that there will be more of those. It's just too raw for us right now. One day at a time.
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