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I was lucky in the aspect that I got to cut my uncle out of my life, your husband can't do that. my sister and my mother don't know about what happened. my sister is an alcoholic and a crack addict...we never really got along in our lives at all. my mother had a breakdown when she found out what had been happening with my sister. she felt like she had failed as a mother...i don't want to do that to her again.
what helps with my fiancee and I is that he understands. if i say stop, he does, no questions asked. and when i do want to talk about it he doesnt give me his opinions and he doesnt cut me off. he just listens, and if i ask a question he answers. your husband needs this.
i know eventually i will need counselling. i just can't seem to get there. i was never raised to beleive that you had to go at it alone, but somewhere in my life I picked that up...and it's hard to get past it.
you cant really understand it unless you have been there, but what you can do for your husband is understand the best you can.
im here to talk if you ever need it!
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You're on a tough road. I'm here for you if you ever want to talk.
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Close Vulvar Cancer
I have just had my second excision surgery for VIN III
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- I am still in a lot of pain. It is not as bad as the first surgery last spring but I am still pretty much bed ridden and feel depressed a lot. The pain killers make me very constipated and laxitives give me diarhea. I have completely quit smoking which is HUGE!!
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