I'm a cheater who had an emotional affair but didn't get physical. It's been over a year since I cut off communication with my OM and told my husband. Since then I've done a 180, worked toward rebuilding my marriage, trying to become a more giving and caring marriage partner, and a better person overall.
I'm a cheater who had an emotional affair but didn't get physical. It's been over a year since I cut off communication with my OM and told my husband. Since then I've done a 180, worked toward rebuilding my marriage, trying to become a more giving and caring marriage partner, and a better person overall.
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3 hugs received, 2 journal posts, 2 journal comments, 2 discussion posts, 1 group discussion post
MrsBlue commented on geminilover’s journal entry Why I'm here..... 10:42pm
When my affair began I wanted to leave my husband but was unable to for the same reasons you stated here.…
MrsBlue wrote a journal entry: Much, MUCH better 8:02pm
Playng on the theory that if you change yourself others around you can't help but change too, I have…
MrsBlue and lovemarriage are now friends 7:26pm
MrsBlue wrote a discussion post in the Healthy Relationships support group: Edging Towards Insanity 8:39pm
No, it's not quite that bad but the title does have its appropriate place. The definition of insanity…
MrsBlue updated their status 8:19pm
In order to resolve this question it is first necessary to align one's...…
November 25, 2009 8:02pm
Playng on the theory that if you change yourself others around you can't help but change too, I have been continuing my ongoing experiment with …
November 20, 2009 12:32am
When I ended my EA it was very difficult. Although I had already been in a stage of detachment from my OM, I had difficulty letting go of the …
November 18, 2009 11:24am
I've finally decided to do something about that stubborn weight I have been carrying around for the last 12 months. Two years ago I lost 50 …
November 17, 2009 12:17am
I attended a wedding over the weekend. For the first time in 14 years I actually felt happy to be there. I used to hate weddings. …
November 12, 2009 6:26pm
You know the kind, an awful hurting pimple that is large and disgusting but far below the surface. It causes a lot of pressure and pain; the …
I am sending you this hug and support. you wrote such a heartfelt deep journal entry about your feelings. You are a great woman.
Sometimes the truth hurts. Since it is coming from an ex-cheater I don't think you will get kicked out of the group. Now if it had come from me I know that some people would be all over me in a very up front, rather than more subdued, way. You may spark introspection in some and defensiveness in others. That's just the way it goes.
Love your posts in the CA group. You are obviously a no BS, tell it like it is, call a spade a spade kind of woman and that attitude is very refreshing.
you are the best!
Have you always been good at giving advice? I am new to this service and could really use some good advice and female perspective.
Gained some weight due to the stresses I've experienced over the last 12 months. Would like to see that weight switch back to being lost again instead of found.
Working to make sure my recovered marriage stays that way, wanting to better myself in my marriage, and hoping the work I do positively affects that relationship.
