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  • About Me

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    NafiaO

    Female, 56, Divorced
    Long Beach, CA, USA
    Member since October 21

    • About Me

      Work as a Chemical Dependency Counselor, Love reading, especially about spirituality, psychology, self-help, philosophy, history, and now...bereavment, life-after death and anything inspirational. Am a meditator, pray alot, write alot, love people, animals, my family and friends. I love nature and being outdoors. My goal is to get out more, to nature spots, and take more walks and hikes.

      Work as a Chemical Dependency Counselor, Love reading, especially about spirituality, psychology, self-help, philosophy, history, and now...bereavment, life-after death and anything inspirational. Am a meditator, pray alot, write alot, love people, animals, my family and friends. I love nature and being outdoors. My goal is to get out more, to nature spots, and take more walks and hikes.

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      All of the above.

      All of the above.

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  • Journal

    • Sundays...

      Mood November 1, 2009 6:32pm

      When my son David was alive, after he moved out on his own,often on Sundays

       we would spend time together in the afternoon or evening. …

    • Wonderful Moms

      Mood October 29, 2009 2:09am

      Hello to all you lovely moms who have responded. Was a tough weekend; flu and recovery and a very busy week catching up missed work. It's hard to …

    • Feeling Better.

      Mood October 23, 2009 3:33pm

      It sure helps to write, join, and be a part of this site. thank you Daily strength.
    • Plan for today.

      Mood October 23, 2009 3:17pm

      Taking a walk today. Cook a healthy pot of soup.
    • Thanks for the Support!

      Mood October 23, 2009 1:28pm

      I appreciate everyone who has requested to be my friend and given hugs. I have not quite figured out how to read your comments, but am working on …

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    • Hug

      From JerryJsMom November 1

      I've read your journals and just want to extend my condolences on the death of your son. I, to had a son lived with the same struggles your boy did and finally died of an overdose at the age of 22. It's been over 2 years now for me and I still miss him every moment of every day. Still ask all the "what if's" and "whys". This is such a difficult journey and I would like you to know I'm here for you. *Hug* Adrianne

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      From annsullivan October 30

      Hi,

      Welcome to our wonderful group of caring moms, but I am so very sorry for the reason you are now counted among us. I am the unofficial keeper of the official list. The list as you may have seen is on the FMO page and is posted once a month. It lists all the children who have have a birthday or angel day(the day they became an angel) that month. If you would like your child included on the list please send me their name, birth, & angel day. You may also include your name if you would like - that is entirely up to you - a few of the mom's have requested that the mom's name be included. If you would like a copy of the entire list I can send that to you but I will need your e-mail address.

      If there is ANYTHING I can do for you please let me know - I am here to help you.

      I hope to hear from you soon...

      Hugs, Ann

    • Hug

      From ihart October 29

      I am so sorry for your loss and would like to offer to listen and be of support as able. My son Richard died 9-28-06.

    • Chicken Soup

      From ForMomsOnly October 29

      Rest, Nafia. We are here when you feel better. xoxo Barbara

    • Hug

      From PJsmom October 25

      It's an awful thing to have to go through, but if it's any comfort we've all been there and know how you're feeling. I know this site has been a great help for me, I lost my 33 yr. old son to suicide in may, and don't know what I would've done without all the great people here at DS. Hang in there, we're always here for you when you need us. Love and hugs, Bev

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Bereavement
      Type: Loss of a Child

      Lost my son David, age 22, on July 11, 2009. I am attending a support group, but find myself often depressed and still in shock. Need to connect with others who have lost children, loved ones, who understand. I am working, but drag myself home everyday and don't feel like socializing much.

      Treatments

      Crying Working / Worked
      It has lessened in the last 3 months from daily sobbing to several times a week, crying and a sob often in bereavment gp.
      Grief Counseling Working / Worked
      Have attended 3 gps. one for parents (was only 4wks long) and now attens 1 almost weekly.
      Helping Others Working / Worked
      Friends and family and other group members. in need, depressed, stressed, illness etc. Listening to them
      Keeping Busy Working / Worked
      work mostly..which is very difficult due to demands, stress, work in chemical dependency field, and time with family and closest frinds.
      Music Working / Worked
      Music is a great support...inspirational only.
      Pets Working / Worked
      Cat who senses when I'm sad.
      Poetry Working / Worked
      Have written for years and continue to express feelings through writin.
      Prayer Working / Worked
      daily, often hourly.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Went to Dr. especially soon after. Got meds for depression. helping.
      Reading Working / Worked
      constant reader. Read everything I can about grief work, Kubler Ross, Berevement, Life- Avid reader. Everything can get my hands on inspirational, also Kubler Ross, stages of grief, books on Bereavment, Life-After Death, Spirituality, Metaphysics.
      Remembering Working / Worked
      Visiting my son's grave site, flowers, potted, cut grass, Alter like areas at home, w/ his pictures and momentos.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Very supportive.
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      breavment.
      Talking Working / Worked
      Need to express my feelings because I live alone, tend to isolate when not working a a Counselor and helping others.
      Time Working / Worked
      Need to take time alone, to rest, read, watch TV, meditate, cook and talk to friends/family on phone...and on this site!
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