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kas1 
I just got back from a lunch hour walk with my wife. She moved out two weeks ago. I am having a hard time dealing with the separation, and I just wanted to have a civil discussion with her to understand her issues. She doesn't want to go to marriage counselling, but will go if I want her to. I only want to go if she feels a desire to save the marriage. She said she will think about it over the next 2 to 3 weeks. I'm not holding my breath. Life sucks!
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Ugghh...that's tough. It's just the beginning,too. Still, there will be times when she will want to save it and you won't and vice versa. I hope you can. Counseling was good for us for awhile. Timing is everything...good luck!
CGM
sry for your sadness. It's hard to be with someone most of your life,only to realise it could be over soon. I no how u feel. i'm 40 been married 18 yrs,been with him 24. It's hard it feels like a death. U have to grieve,it's a part of it,but it sucks!!! Listen about counceling,don't do it if she's only doing it because u want her to. Been their done that,it doesn't work,and the councelor will soon catch onto it. It takes two. Hang in there. I'm sry,and i'm here if u wanna talk.
christineeve
Thanks for the comments. I went through my mom's death 6 years and this feels far worse as I have lost my support in this case. I'll keep everyone appraised of counselling if it happens.
kas1