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On the 15th of October I was imprisoned for four hours pending a Family Violence Order being taken out against …
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froggiez2 
1:19pm, November 15, 2009
So I just got off the phone with the Hubby, he has been calling more and more lately....so he called earlier tonight to talk to my daughter who he hasn't spoke to since he left.....they talked for a second and he was off the phone.....then he called me back asking me if I wanted to go to Church with him on Sunday. He talked about how this was home but he didn't want to rush back into it. But that he loved me and didn't want a divorce.....said he has been talking to his Pastor and today the topic was me.....so now he wants us to go to Church and see what happens.....he said he knows he can no longer drink, I also told him he couldn't just run everytime he didn't agree with me....he said he knew he was a runner and he was working on that....my head is just swimming right now.....
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Hi sweetie, I think as long as you stay in control with your emotions and decisions, this may be good. I know in my marriage we would survive without God in it. I think it may be a good start. I just finished reading the book, the shack..........it was incredible......would be great for you both to read.....!!!! Hugs. Nan
claimvictory
Opppps, I meant we would not survive without God.....big ooops...
claimvictory
We have all been there at one time or another!If I had a $1.00 for everytime my H said he would leave or actually left I would be rich. But nothing changed until I left and I only left once, but I took the kids with me and told him for us to come back and stay he had to be sober , take meds, and and walk away when told. The third one was hard for him, but he is getting better. However, he stopped drinking and takes meds regularly, because he knows that if he doesn't I will leave. By learning to set very clear boundaries and NOT allowed him to suck me into his world I have survived. Oh yeh finding something I love to do as a hobby saved my life. He would never let me do things because he needed me near him at all times, but I stated nope that had to end and boundaries went deep. Sometimes I think I am too hard, but everytime I give in he takes a mile and acts out. I have decided he needs these bounaries more than I do.
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hyemom
hyemom, the boundries are needed, I finally told him last night how hurt I really was....and it felt really good to get that off my chest....baby steps are all we can do right now...its gonna be a long road I know, but if he can hold true to what he is saying I believe we can survive...and without God we have nothing.....thats for all the encouraging words...
froggiez2