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  • About Me

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    heartbrokenitexas

    Female, 28, Married
    USA
    Member since October 2

    • About Me

      My D-day was one September 22nd, the day after my son's seventh birthday. My husband of eleven years, who was also my high school sweetheart, disclosed to me that he had been seeing a girl much younger than me for the past few months, sneaking out at night while I was at home with our three children and having relations with her. This I found out only after receiving a text message on MY phone from the girl, who was upset that he'd broken up with her. He lied for the first few days, saying that they were only friends until he finally came clean and told me the truth about everything after I relentlessly hasseled him. The knife would stabs deep; I know I was not the 'perfect' wife, but I was always there for him. He says the reason he had the affair was because he was emotionally bankrupt in our marriage. I don't buy it--it wasn't as if I didn't feel neglected as well, but never once did I believe that constitued an affair. I always believed that no matter what, we made vows to each other. And if he felt the need to break those vows, then he should've just broken off the marriage. NOT HAD AN AFFAIR!!

      My D-day was one September 22nd, the day after my son's seventh birthday. My husband of eleven years, who was also my high school sweetheart, disclosed to me that he had been seeing a girl much younger than me for the past few months, sneaking out at night while I was at home with our three children and having relations with her. This I found out only after receiving a text message on MY phone from the girl, who was upset that he'd broken up with her. He lied for the first few days, saying that they

    • Interests

      Reading, writing, playing with my three young kids, working with young kids in my profession, volunteering my time to help others

      Reading, writing, playing with my three young kids, working with young kids in my profession, volunteering

  • Recent Activity

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    • 9 hugs received, 3 hugs given, 2 photo comments, 2 journal comments, 1 discussion post

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  • Journal

    • Sexually Transmitted Diseases

      Mood November 17, 2009 3:11pm

      I feel so disgusted. 

       

      There are two reasons why my H is the only man I have ever slept with.  Number one is because I always believed …

    • braib farts

      Mood October 24, 2009 9:48pm

      It is 8:30 pm and I just realized that today is October 24th--my mother's birthday. 

       

      And I forgot. 

       

      I had a brain …

    • small victories

      Mood October 22, 2009 9:01pm

      Whew. Today was an insane day. I am glad it's finished. Moreover, I am thankful for the most peaceful and relaxing night I have experienced …
    • Jerry Springer episode

      Mood October 22, 2009 1:28am

      Well, here I am today, hoping that things would be better. Little did I know that my H would end up in jail this evening. After seeing my …
    • Hate

      Mood October 20, 2009 5:14pm

      Hate is an emotion, some say the most passionate emotion, that we are all tempted to feel at times, to allow ourselves to succumb to. But before …

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    • Good Luck

      From Lstecker Saturday

      Great goal you have going...half the battle is getting started! And you have! My best to you, L~

    • Shout Out

      From Trying2trust Saturday

      You can do it Mom! You are a strong woman, don't give up. I am here to listen and cheer you on!!!

    • Thumbs Up

      From kktylo Saturday

      Love your goal. I so need to do the same!

    • Hug

      From kktylo Friday

      (((Hugs))) to you and boy can I relate to your story. It sounds exactly like my own cheating husband.

    • Flower

      From Trying2trust Friday

      Hope you are having good day! Hugs!

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Infidelity

      My Husband cheated on me. My D-day was 9/22, the day after my son's seventh birthday. We have been married for what I thought were 11 pretty great years. I am also a working mother of 3.

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Working / Worked
      We just started counseling, so it's too early to tell.
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      I'm working on it, but it will be a long road to haul.
      Celexa Working / Worked
      I started on 20 mg of Celexa just a few weeks before the affair began to take place. Since finding out my doctor upped my dosage to 40 mg. To be perfectly honest Im not sure how could make it through this experience without it. My main side effect is a loss of appetite which has only worsened since Dday.
      Breathing Exercises Working / Worked
      Certainly helps calm the mind and muscles when they are stressed beyond overload.
    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      Treatments

      Family Therapy Working / Worked
      Leave Working / Worked
      Reading Working / Worked
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      Talking Working / Worked
      Celexa Working / Worked
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