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Close Breakups & Divorce

My wife left me after 15years, she is 34 and I'm 48. She has taken the kids and are staying Unknown she has pulled the kids out of school, This all took place Tuesday Morning, I;ve called the police their response was call a Lawyer and I have but to tell my story in this litte box is impossible. I miss and Love my wife and kids very much and cant's see life with out them, I have never struck either of them I don't drink or smoke and have never stepped out on my vows. I'm not trying to paint my self as a perfect spouse by no means, My Wife came to me 8weeks ago saying that she loves me but not in love with me? I explained that this is phase or chemical balance change with you and I'll help you get the treatment you need. She has been seeing a theropist and is on welbutran. I believe the group of women she works around are feeding her lies of what life is like after marrraige and how you can become your self and not the mold that your husband has made you! Just a thought. She has never been on her own again we married when she was 20 and I 34y/o. She finished her collage and we started a family after that, life seamed to be as it should, NOT the case as of last week when she asked for seperation I got angry and told her that seperation was not the answer we have two precious childern that need both parenst to work this out and divorce was not an option and that I would not leave her, Well here I am 3am reaching out to who ever will listen.

Treatments

Positive Thinking Too Soon to Tell

I have always been optomistic and Im strugle with the uncertanty and all of the whys I have no closure as to what my wife is feeling or how scared my childern must be

Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful

My Family is all dead She and the kids are all I have.