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lis25 
8:18am
Ive been feeling a lttle down lately. I cant help but wish i was still pregnant. With xmas and jaidens birthday and kevs 30th coming up i guess i imagined them all with me getting bigger. It sux that i have to start all over again. Its also a bit harder 4 me bc Macy was due in april and we r getting married in november its all been booked. So i feel now i have to make the choice between the wedding and trying again. Some people may think this is any easy decision but it is not. I want to get married but then i have to wait a whole year to start trying again and this just sound to long. Oh this is so confusing. My fiance said he doesnt care either way and it is my choice and he doesnt understand the big decision. AM i overeacting ? or is this a big choice?
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I don't think you are overreacting. I know I wouldn't want to be a pregnant bride. The stress alone of a wedding is enough when you are not worried about an unborn child. Then again, lot's of women get married when they are pregnant and they look beautiful. I know you will choose what's right for you. I hope it all works out! Hugs :)
Pebbles100
I can see why you are so upset, and frustrated with the whole thing. I only hope that your fiance can try to understand a little better, and that you don't have so much stress trying to figure all of this out. Either way you are a beautiful person inside, and out, and when the time comes you aren't going to care about anything else but that baby, and your happiness together as a family, and your husband will love you no matter what choice you make. At least he is there for you. I do have to commend him for that. I have a friend who's man walked out on her cause he couldn't deal with her emotional rollercoaster. It was sad to see her like that, but she is eventually found what was right for her, and is now married to someone else, and has a very precious baby boy... :) Good luck honey, and you are in my prayers.
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