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Thank you all for the support you are showing my sister. She did make it the website as MsDee4303. I hope she continues to log her …
Good Morning,
Thank you all for the support you are showing my sister. She did make it the website as MsDee4303. I hope she continues to log her …
Deborah,
I'm glad you took the time to look at the site. The ladies here have all experienced the same loss as you and have some wonderful …
Hello,
Hadn't had a chance to write in a few days. The service is over, and all friends and family have left. Reality is truly about to set …
Today has been a very long day. The funeral was so sad, but my little sweetie was so beautiful. My sister was as we expected. She just kept saying I …
I did want to add my sister had a good day, but broke down because the death announcement appeared in the paper yesterday. She has gone back to not …
Thank you so much for getting your sister here. You are a great sister. You are doing great for her, but make sure you give yourself time to grieve too. Sending hugs!
THIS IS FROM YOUR SISTER THSNKS FOR ALL THE LOVE AND SUYPPORT AND FOR SENDING ME TO THIS SITE
Im so sorry for the loss of your niece
I am so sorry for the loss of your neice, she is so beautiful. Daily Strength has been my life saver, I hope it helps you as it has helped me, you should mention this site to yous sister too, I think it would really help her to talk to people who have been thru the same thing. My sweet baby girl Arihanna passed away March 29th 2008, she was 2 months 9 days old. I miss her everyday. You are such a great support for your sister, she is so lucky to have you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Luv & hugs-Julia
so sorry for the loss of your niece. Please tell your sister about Daily Strength. It has been an amazing souce of support for me. As a sister, the best thing you can do is to listen, to just be there, and to continue to listen and be there weeks and months and years from now. Don't stop saying her (your niece's) name around your sister for fear of upsetting her. I think most of here on DS have experienced some degree of guilt. Remind her that SIDS is not preventable, she did nothing wrong, but unfortunatley, due to the nature of SIDS, we continue to blame ourselves no matter what anyone says. Get her a copy of the SIDS and Infant Death Survival Guide www.sidssurvivalguide.org or amazon.com for a used copy - it helped me so much right after Austin died. The funeral will be hard for her. She may have had detectives asking questions, which only adds to the guilt feeling. This is all so new for your family. You are all probably in shock right now, its when the shock wears off that she will really need you all. There are people on this website who are angry at God and we all question His reasons for taking our babies. Its okay to be angry and to question. HUGS and sending strength and prayers to your family!