Break the cycle
I talked to boss yesterday. After talking to alot of friends over the weekend, I mustered up my detemination (not so strong) and courage to say …
Relationship 14 years, married for almost 2 years, no kids. Husband started affair 3 weeks before I moved to his city for him. 3 months after discovery, I'm still In the process of deciding to stay or leave.
Relationship 14 years, married for almost 2 years, no kids. Husband started affair 3 weeks before I moved to his city for him. 3 months after discovery, I'm still In the process of deciding to stay or leave.
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hang in there, I've been through the spying and checking....it really really hurts...but, to me, it was…
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getting life back on track…
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hope the divorce procedure can be completed this week…
I talked to boss yesterday. After talking to alot of friends over the weekend, I mustered up my detemination (not so strong) and courage to say …
Today I have developed 80% determination for my decision to leave
leave him and leave the city
go to relatives to heal for a while
and restart …
after 3 months, you are finally more stable to give me what I wanted 3 months before:
to share a meal with you
to spend more time with you
to go …
sigh....just to remind myself.
no it is not ok to still be pals with the person you had affair …
Thank you Lord Jesus! I have rec'd many, many generous donations for Soldiers at Cindi's Thanksgiving Day to feed the Troops. We are planning to feed the Troops again at Christmas at a friend's church that is near Tinker Air Force Base. Wishing all of my DS frienda a fabulous, healthy, and Happy Thanksgiving!! Giant hugs from OKC!! Cindi
A lesson that should be taught in all schools . . And colleges
Back in September, on the first day of school, Martha Cothren, a social studies school teacher at Robinson High School, did something not to be forgotten. On the first day of school, with the permission of the school superintendent, the principal and the building supervisor, she removed all of the desks out of her classroom.
When the first period kids entered the room they discovered that there were no desks.
'Ms.. Cothren, where're our desks?'
She replied, 'You can't have a desk until you tell me how you earn the right to sit at a desk.'
They thought, 'Well, maybe it's our grades.'
'No,' she said.
'Maybe it's our behavior.'
She told them, 'No, it's not even your behavior.'
And so, they came and went, the first period, second period, third period. Still no desks in the classroom.
By early afternoon television news crews had started gathering in Ms.Cothren's classroom to report about this crazy teacher who had taken all the desks out of her room.
The final period of the day came and as the puzzled students found seats on the floor of the deskless classroom, Martha Cothren said, 'Throughout the day no one has been able to tell me just what he/she has done to earn the right to sit at the desks that are ordinarily found in this classroom. Now I am going to tell you.'
At this point, Martha Cothren went over to the door of her classroom and opened it.
Twenty-seven (27) War Veterans, all in uniforms, walked into that classroom, each one carrying a school desk. The Vets began placing the school desks in rows, and then they would walk over and stand alongside the wall... By the time the last soldier had set the final desk in place those kids started to understand, perhaps for the first time in their lives, just how the right to sit at those desks had been earned..
Martha said, 'You didn't earn the right to sit at these desks. These heroes did it for you. They placed the desks here for you. Now, it's up to you to sit in them. It is your responsibility to learn, to be good students, to be good citizens. They paid the price so that you could have the freedom to get an education. Don't ever forget it.'
By the way, this is a true story.
Please consider passing this along so others won't forget that the freedoms we have in this great country were earned by War Veterans.
i wish i could just take off for a while on my own but i cant cz my baby is small and tiny (3 months)....thanx for the support dear:)
Wish you were here!! Linda and I put together a “Bedlam” OSU/OU Energy Lab…….complete with Tesla Coil, glow sticks, black lights, glow bracelets, a strobe light, and a black light spider web….for creepy crawly energy. Whoooooo Hooooo!! How about those Cowboys??? I dressed up as Pistol Pete, complete with cowboy hat, orange and black fingernail polish, wild black eyebrows, mustache, and neon orange hair. Complete with six shooter cap guns…..and of course……Cowboy boots!! Hugs from OKC!! Cindi
By T. D. Jakes:
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us, for had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go, and it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye... It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you
need ....
LET IT GO!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.......................... LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you.................
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction...........
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents………………
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude............... LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better..............
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him.........................
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed ......................
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,'
then you need to……….
LET IT GO!!!
The Battle is the Lord's!
To get through my husband's affair and to rebuild marriage (or not)
may have to break it off with husband who has affair and won't leave her or me alone
want to see if I'm emotionally abused
To learn how to stand my ground and live a healthy relationship
I think I may be going through depression because of trauma from husband's affair