Journal Entry for October 25, 2009
October 25, 2009 10:56pm
Well its been 3 weeks since my dad moved down here to be with me due to the pancreatic cancer. It is rapidly progressing and he is getting …
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September 5, 2009 5:26pm
We found out yesterday that thepancreatic cancer that my dad has been fighting is wining. He has went through lots of chemo and now his body cant …
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Hoping you have a happy Thanksgiving. Thinking about you and praying.
Phil 4:13
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Hi there...I'm so sorry about your dad...I may have a way that you can help your 3 year old cope w his death....my sister also had a grandson who was 3 when she died..his parents told him that she was turning into an angel...of course you have to educate him about angels and God and how your dad is going to help God collect the angels..etc..but when i saw this boy, he told me that his Gma had turned into an angel and that he wouldn't see her again until he was also an angel someday. I just found this to be so comforting to him. He was around her when she was sick and dying and eventually became more aloof as her body became more dysfunctional...he somehow just knew what was happening. I believe kids are more adaptable than we give them credit for and they are SO intuitive...it was really hard for my sister to know that she wouldn't be alive to see him grow up since she had a lot to do w raising him..but somewhere down the line in her coming out of denial that she was dying, she just let go of controlling his life and realized that she had to let him go...it was so sad but necessary ya know? Kids understand things in ways we can never imagine...love to you
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Close Pancreatic Cancer
My dad has pancratic cancer and i want others who have it or freinds/family that have it to talk to
Treatments
- Chemotherapy Not Working
- we were using chemo but it has since stopped doing anything. His body can't take it anymore
Close Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)
i have a 3yr opld boy
Treatments
- Child Time-out Somewhat Helpful
- if i make him go to his bed and lay down usually the crying or the fit will stop so he can come out of his room
- Patience Not Working
- you got to have patience but usually mine are gone
- Positive Reinforcement Somewhat Helpful
