today i am not good. i am losing …
today i am not good. i am losing my marriage and my happiness. i wish i new what to do. it seems that my recent …
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Unhappysoul 
10:29am Friday
I always try and be positive but my partner he dwells on the negative, what he wants, he always on setee (lying down) dosnt seem to care that the setee meant for more than him and the way that seeing him lying down all the time triggers bad childhood memories, I gets angry cause i know there are people who are properly poorly who are needing lots of rest and he just takes up the whole of the setee when he feels like it, I always on auto polit and he always relaxed.
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baby..can you make it on your own??? I mean did you consider getting own place..no more partner?? you aren't happy time to move on and you can do it..start over again..leave partner to his family they will take care of him...dont feel guilty...you cant go on like this my darling..please think about this...you can make a new life ..you will be happier...I think alot of your depression is from not healthy relationship..you are young and time to move on!!! I LOVE YOU and am here for you..dont be afraid!!! You are strong and can do this!!!! xoxoxoxox and there are lots of other guys out there for you even those with autism..like you that can function well..that you dont have to take care of !!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
serenity55
sorry honey I meant to say ASPERGERS! NOT AUTISM..duh!!! so sorry!!!! oops
serenity55
oh sweetie, I do agree with your friend.....it is just so hard to deal with negativity dragging you down all the time. It is alsos very very very hard to make a decision to split and be on your own...*sigh*...........I havnt been in touch for a while, but have you talked to him about his negativity? and how it effects you? dont wrap your life around this man, oh please dont, if he cant change.....try to start thinking about moving on, in some way.....XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Cathrynn
I have lived with a man who for 11 yrs who is overall positive when he is around his band mates and friends etc....but he is so negative when he talks to me. He sits around on the weekend and watches NASCAR which I despise.
I'm worried that your marrying into this lifestyle. Do you not think you deserve better than this?
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It is not nice for you to have this all the time and it makes one feel so depressed. I do agree with what your friend said. serenity55. Lots of hugs xxx
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