my dark place
November 9, 2009 8:18pm
I NEVER write poems - I don't understand them and I don't write them... but this one flowed from my fingertips in about 30 seconds just …
rcr
1:04pm, August 31, 2009
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About Me
rcr
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About Me
I left my emotionally abusive husband Feb '09 and divorced him June '09 - we had been together for 13 years. I am trying to focus on myself and get over the tremendous feelings of guilt and doubt.
I left my emotionally abusive husband Feb '09 and divorced him June '09 - we had been together for 13 years. I am trying to focus on myself and get over the tremendous feelings of guilt and doubt.
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Interests
I love to travel and see new places, play sports, ride motorcycles, and go camping.
I love to travel and see new places, play sports, ride motorcycles, and go camping.
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Recent Activity
Recently:
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3 hugs received, 1 discussion post, 1 hug given
Saturday
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rcr wrote a discussion post in the Physical & Emotional Abuse support group: I need reinforcement 11:23am
My ex (we have been divorced since June) left me a msg yesterday saying he misses me and our life together…
Tuesday
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rcr gave sedona011 an I'm with you 8:11pm
Keep your chin up... you will get your life and your spirit back!…
November 15
November 12
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rcr wrote a discussion post in the Physical & Emotional Abuse support group: Threatening To Commit Suicide 8:11pm
Just wondering how many of you have heard the threat of suicide if you left him? I heard it at least…
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Journal
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stepson
October 22, 2009 3:21pm
I just found out that my stepson (almost 19 yrs old) found his roommate dead a couple weeks ago. I feel so bad I was not there for him. And I …
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he tried to contact me
September 28, 2009 7:54pm
After 3 months of not contacting me he sent me a text on our anniversary - ripped me apart. Then about 10 days later he sent another text and called …
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I feel so mean
September 8, 2009 7:27pm
I feel like I was so mean when I left. I did the 'no contact' thing and it just ripped my heart out. I knew he was hurting so bad because I …
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I miss him...
September 2, 2009 12:23am
I really hate to admit it but I miss him so much. I am again thinking... it really wasn't too bad... I actually had things pretty good in life... …
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Hugbook
Hug
Hi, I agree with all the other comments on your post but . . .
Has he been to counselling to improve ? He is offering to live anywhere this may be a sign he is changing. Since June to now might not be enough time to change but he may be on the right road. Are you much stronger now or still working on it ?
In my situation also since June we have both been working on our individual issues but have loads still left to achieve, some of this we are now doing jointly and it is getting easier.
Good luck
Good Luck
Be Strong!
Go For It
You did good with your post! Proud of you!
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Rainbow
Just sending out a little love...enjoy your rainbow. Hope you are having a good day.
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Chocolate
Sent you some chocolate...the cure for everything!
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Photos
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
Treatments
- Leave Working / Worked
- I am out of the situation but lonely.
- Reading Working / Worked
- Books are good silent therapy for me - they help affirm that I made the right choice.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Could not make it without my family and friends.
Close Physical & Emotional Abuse
I left my emotionally (and slightly physically) abusive husband 6 months ago and the divorce is now final. I still need affirmation and support to get over my guilt and doubt.
Treatments
- Divorce Somewhat Helpful
- I am free of the abusive situation but 2nd guess my decision a lot.
- Leave Working / Worked
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- I really looked forward to couseling sessions but have not been to any for 4 months. Can not afford it.
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- It helps but I feel like I burden people with it and that they don't need my 'issues' on top of theirs.
Open Codependency
I am codependant - it makes me feel good when other's need me. I am trying to take better care of myself since my divorce.
Treatments
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- My brother and I have talked a lot about this since we are very similar in this area.
Open Fitness Goals
Type: Improve overall fitnessTrying to get back into a fitness routine to help feel better about myself after an abusive relationship.
Treatments
- Elliptical Trainer Too Soon to Tell
- Running Somewhat Helpful
- I do more walking than running - but I like running when I am in shape!
- Weight Training Too Soon to Tell
Open Healthy Relationships
Divorced an emotionally abusive husband, had an emotionally abusive step-dad... don't want to repeat history!
Treatments
- Patience Somewhat Helpful
- I am only so patient.
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