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  From dpayne October 26

  Hi I can say it has been 18yrs since the birth of my 1st child that was placed for adoption against my will and again this is just me and I was only 15 at the time but there is not a day that goes by I do not miss him and it really has been a major impact in my life. Let it be your decision not someone elses.

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  From KETTERMN October 22

  Just wanted to give you a hug and let you know I was where you are (I did choose adoption when I was yournger) and I now have two biological boys (ages 29 & 31) 3 grandchildren and 3 adopted children now ages 9,5 and 2 .Our prayers are with you and we are willing to talk if you need to.I left you a message on your posted question.

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  From wendallyn October 15

  I left a post but also wanted to encourage you to not let all the negative posts get to you. Trust your heart. If you decide on adoption, choose birth parents who will raise your child the way you would really want to raise him/her yourself. Do not be impressed by money, how nice their house is, etc., but look for a deep loving relationship. As long as the adoptive parents have a stable, loving relationship, your baby would be in good hands.
  
  Also, I don't know your personal or religious convictions, but I have many gay male friends who have adopted and I can tell you they are the best dads I have ever met. Many are "uncles" to my daughters. they are all loving and would give anything for their children to be happy. The most important thing is that if you decide to look into adoption, let your heart guide you. God Bless you!

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  From mariad1972 August 19

  Hi.My name is Maria . I read your post and just wanted to send my support and know that I am thinking of you during this difficult time. I am not a birthmom but I am a prospective adoptive parent. I never walked in your shoes so I'm not going to pretend that I know exactly what you are feeling. But I do know that this is a struggle of emotions as you figure out what is best for your baby and what is best for you. The thought of placing your child for adoption takes alot of courage and alot of love. I hope you get to talk to someone, maybe get some counseling, so you can make a more comfortable decision. I pray that God gives you the strength to know what is best for your both.
  I also wanted to add that if you do think of adoption, you pick the parents. It's your decision and you can speak to several different couples and see who you feel most comfortable with...and make a plan for the baby's future as far as keeping contact. I personally think you should keep in contact so you always know what is going on with you child as he or she grows & so he or she knows you and their history and are more emotional grounded from being able to have answers. And they will have questions - it's just human nature to want to know who you look like and where you came from, etc. I have many friends and relatives who were adopted and have adopted children. Questions ALWAYS come up and I think it best that any child who is adopted can keep in touch with his birth parents. But like I said, you ultimately decide what you feel is best for you and your unborn child. I wish you peace in the next few months as you figure out what to do.
  Sincerely, Maria

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