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  From suszeque August 18

  I am reading this and I feel like I am to some degree reading about my own experience but yours is much more painful. I am at a stage where I finally am able to see that its time to let go and let be. Its not fair, its horrible, disappointing, painful because you are obviously a great mom, dedicated to your family , your husband and I know from experience that you being the mom you are worked very hard directing you children with disabilities without much support. I have walked your walk and I believe our husbands just don't know how to handle life when it gets tough and so they go out looking for an escape. It sounds like you do most everything and if he does go , you will be okay, you will rise above this and God will open up doors for you. I think we need to realize that we really aren't losing much, yes there were good memories , good times but the conduct of these men is very very wrong, they are bullies, cheaters and they are not willing to resist the temptation and I think the only way to find out what could ever be would be to let them go . You have suffered enough. If its meant to be he will realize it but he is too blinded to see anything right now. Affairs are like self medication for the weak and they will do anything and go to any length to self medicate with that thrill.
  You are a special lady, forgiving, giving, loving. I know your plight, I cried reading your letter because I know how you feel.
  Today I woke up and I walked into the kitchen and asked a question with a snide comment and treated like I was the criminal. I shook and I am perplexed at why I can' t let go as well. But I have those days where I am free from his bullying and I realize its good to be away from it. So maybe we just need to let go, the struggle afterward can't be as bad as what we are going through right now!!
  Keep your chin up, you are worthy of better love and peace. You are deserving of a better life. Maybe someday he will come to terms with himself and realize what he has lost but think about this... maybe by then you will be living a life much better and won't want him back!
  Hang in there.
  

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  From stillstanding August 17

  keep coming here and talking with us. It will help!

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  From sfsoccermom August 17

  Just letting you know you are not alone.

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