So this week i have interacted with girly girls which honestly i stear away from girly girls and do not normally take a liking to them (over-rated society ruled specimens) though someone i figure has to be a good influence and be the individual that can model a better attitude and way of approaching situations. Apparently that is my desire in life, (yeah listening to problems and setting aside my own, LOL).
I am a firm believer that there are better ways to approach your human needs and communcation skills than being a SLUT... Yeah truly i swear oneday it will hopefully be realised by a higher majority. It seems men manipulate your mind to think that you have to be a certain way (seriously this is crap girls do not be prone to it). So ok did being all that sexually for a guy ever get anyone true love and a marriage that would last 60 years (if you can tell me a case please post a comment).
The symptoms of turners has guided my thoughts on this, as i struggle to be taken seriously and deprived of something i long for at the same time i become more aware that it is not impossible because of the symptoms, it is impossible because i let myself settle for what someone else wants and wants me to be and how to be within their life. Sometimes you need to remind yourself that you do not have to limit yourself for someone else.
A woman with turners should never enter a relationship with a man and allow him to push your body self esteem lower or tell herself she is whatever they say. You already are most likely feeling incomplete as a woman. It hurts and it will hurt for quite a time though do not ever settle for less than support, encouragement and someone who wants the same thing.
How your mind internalises and processes data from a negative, degrading man will turn into thoughts and feelings as it is perceived and processed from the signals you take in. You can better manage your emotions yes, however degrading comments are meant to degrade and affect you in this manner, you are not misperceiving.
I hope anyone who reads this empathises and processes the message in an effective way to their benefit when interacting and attempting to understand another.in a relationship.





