lisa13324

Close Breakups & Divorce

My husband has told me that he is not in love with me. We have decided to separate or divorce. I have been a stay at home mom with three kids our entire marriage. I don't know how to deal with the pain, how to tell our kids or what to tell them. My husband and I cannot afford to get separate places and are cordial so have decided to stay in our home until one of us can move out. We also would like to work together on this instead fo hiring seperate attorneys.

Treatments

Couples Counseling Working / Worked

Husband and I went but I do not feel for long enough and I also do not feel he put forth the effort needed. I will always wonder IF he had put forth effort it things could have changed.

Forgiveness Working / Worked

I am trying to work on this but find it very hard because I am in the initial stages of this. It's hard to let go when you are still very much in love with your spouse. It will be a continuing process.

Leave Too Soon to Tell

Not sure where to go, no job, and unable to afford to find any place at this time.

Love Working / Worked

Still love my husband very much.

Pets Working / Worked

One cat

Reading Working / Worked

Enjoy magazines, currently trying to read Dr. Phil Family First and looking for other self help books.

Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked

I have a ton, it helps to be able to talk with my close friends.

Support Groups Considering

This is my first but am considering looking in my community for one for myself and to see if there are any offered for my kids.

Talking Working / Worked

Husband and I in beginning stages. We are trying to talk without blaming or getting angry.