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  utah31 (1:29 pm)

  Thinking of you and hoping all is well. Please keep us updated!
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  fawnzarelli (12:58 pm)

  Well it sounds like we have or are suspected to have similar issues! You are being so strong for your baby! I would be running to the dr every five minutes if I were still bleeding like you. I would go to the hospital and check. Maybe you could get one of the home dopplers so you could listen to the babys heart rate when you begin to worry too much. Thats what Ive done, and I can find the heartbeat relatively quickly now, I check every day. I cant help it. It is a little comfort to know they are in heaven being cared for, but it's so painful to be left here to deal with it. Not saying that I would want to pass on, but just that is a very emotional and painful thing. I have all my fingers crossed for you and your little one! I hope the bleeding stops soon and things look up for you! Prayers and Hugs!
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  fawnzarelli (12:18 pm)

  They have a few reasons they thought it might be, but I came across my own reason as well. They thought it may have been that I had Lupus, but the results came nag. for that. Then they thought I had something called antiphospholipid antibody syndrome, which basically means my body overproduces antibodies that attack specific organs in specific systems in my body, they thought it was attacking my endocrine system since I have thyroid disorder and also type one Diabetes. I asked if the Diabetes could've been the issue, but they said I have it under such good control there was no way it could've been that. So when the results came back for the APAS they said that I had antibodies, but not enough to positively diagnose me with it. He said that he believed that I would eventually be diagnosed with it though, which is scary since depending on what organ it attacks I could just die from it apparently. :( But I'm hoping that never happens! So their next theory was that since I had miscarried the first time and had to have a D&C due to my body not letting go of the pregnancy on its own that the second pregnancy was too soon after and my body wasn't completely healed yet. (even though I waited the amount of time thy recommended, 3 months). So they told me to wait 6 months and see what happened next time, and so far so good! Fingers crossed on this pregnancy, I'm 11 weeks, further than the last two. So my own theory came up during My own research on the internet. I found out that if you are not on the right dose of thyroid meds or are not taking thyroid meds during your pregnancy and you have a thyroid disorder that it can cause your baby to have a lowered IQ, it can cause birth defects, and it can also cause recurring miscarriage! Ive been on a different dose now since my last miscarriage, but no one bothered to mention this to me, or that it could've been a potential problem. I'm mad, but more so at my self then the dr.s. Ive had a few episodes of spotting during this pregnancy, but they've been checked out, and have stopped, so I'm praying that things are okay. Sorry that was so long, it's a complicated explanation. Have the dr.s given you any answers yet, or any time frames? Do you even feel up to trying again? I know that when they told me 6 months I wasn't sure if I could handle wondering if things would be okay with another baby, or if I could handle another m/c if that happened again. I still don't know, but I do know that there are people here, if not anywhere else that will know how I feel if it does happen again, and will know what I'm going through, whatever that may be in the future. And that does help in it's own way. I'm thinking of you and your family every day. :)
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  fairychild1981 (Yesterday)

  Yes I do have ultrasound pics and i also have a dvd with him moving. I have looked at the pics and have had a good cry. But it gives me some comfort that I have something I can't bring myself to look at the dvd yet in time I will when I'm ready. I hope you have a great day and that God be with you.
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  fairychild1981 (11/24/09)

  I'm doing the bast I can. Love from my husband and knowing the my son was healthy and did not feel pain gives me peace. I know that he is my angle and that he is heaven for a reason.
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  MoonLittleMoon (11/24/09)

  been in my thoughts the past few days.. i just saw your post on another group.. people say some really stupid things, it can be real hard when people just do not understand. x0x
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  Franny7 (11/20/09)

  Pls read my journal entry for today. Did they remove my messages from your mailbox too?I have several confirmations that they are going to my friends' mail, and removing my personal e-mails! Good grief. I would not be surprised if they closed my account altogether. Please send me a personal e-mail address just in case!
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  utah31 (11/18/09)

  No luck this month. Praying for an Xmas miracle though....I hope you are ok.
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  God2010Baby (11/18/09)

  Thanks for your message. Yes, my levels are good everything seems normal. Just really hoping for a baby in 2010. I'm coping fairly well, I have my ups and downs. But overall, still scared but very hopeful we will have a child next year.
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  utah31 (11/16/09)

  AF is 2 days late now! My endo pain is subsiding HUGELY! VERY optimistic, but trying to not get my hopes up too much.
  Hoping you are ok, as is baby....

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