My feelings matter
My feelings were valid -- when I was offended by something he said, or when I was hurt by things he did. He blasted me for having feelings, but my …
I'm a writer, living in the California mountains. I was married young, and have two beautiful daughters. But the marriage ended badly. I went on to have a series of medium-term relationships that also ended badly, and left me crushed. The most recent ended a few months back. This one actually prompted me to take action -- and I am now using a list of supports to make myself healthy and make some changes before I bring another man into my life. It's time to figure out what part I played, and address that. I'm learning to let go -- I can only control my thoughts -- and take charge of my happiness.
I'm a writer, living in the California mountains. I was married young, and have two beautiful daughters. But the marriage ended badly. I went on to have a series of medium-term relationships that also ended badly, and left me crushed. The most recent ended a few months back. This one actually prompted me to take action -- and I am now using a list of supports to make myself healthy and make some changes before I bring another man into my life. It's time to figure out what part I played, and address
Cross-country skiing, cycling, hiking, reading.
Cross-country skiing, cycling, hiking, reading.
My feelings were valid -- when I was offended by something he said, or when I was hurt by things he did. He blasted me for having feelings, but my …
Today my focus is to accept who I am and where I'm at right now.
I'm not where I want to be... I don't want some of the thoughts I …
From now on, before I do anything, or spend time thinking about something, I will ask myself: Will this empower me?
My goal today is to be aware of things as they come into my life, and examine whether they are good for me -- up my energy -- or whether they are a …
I intend to be a kind, loving, caring, confident woman who gives love and who lets love in.
I intend to respect myself, and to be respected for …
It takes a village to raise a child - well it take a village to support a co-dependent! (smile) and soooo thankful to have you part of my "village"
I can relate to you so much.
Keep up the good work!
love to you! Hope all is going well Vxx
You are doing GREAT!!!