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  • About Me

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    Abbasbride

    Female, 46
    Sandwich, USA
    Member since July 28

    • About Me

      I am 46, engaged Mom with 3 grown boys of my own - My oldest has also given me a beautiful grandson, my middle son is in his last year of college - going into the ministry, and my youngest will soon be starting college for a worship leader and youth counselor. The middle and youngest also have a Christian band. They live in Indiana and have traveled all over playing different venues and for the last 2 years they have spent their summers in California performing and running the Xtreme tour. I will soon have 3 beautiful grown step children- the oldest 2 are girls and the youngest are boys and their ages coincide like stairsteps with my natural children. The oldest has also given us a beautiful grandson (2 years between the 2 babies) The middle is a chef on one of the islands in South Carolina, and the youngest has just graduated and will be going into body work and collision repair. As you can tell I am very family oriented! I have been battling fibromyalgia since my hysterectomy in 1995. It was pretty well controlled with pain meds until a car accident I was in in 2006. It was totally not my fault and I have been unable to work since then. I had a severely broken arm and it messed up my back which wasnt in the greatest shape to begin with. Up until that point I was a very productive single homeschooling mother who raised my boys with no help from their father or anyone else. I moved up the corporate ladder quite quickly even without a college degree and was very proud of the money I was making, the position I was in was absolutely the best with the greatest boss, I had a lovely life with my children and we were not rolling in money but had what we needed and most of what we wanted. Now I suffer constantly with pain, have no stamina to even shower every day muchless do anything around the house, cannot make plans to do anything in advance because most days I don't move from my recliner--I cant even sleep in bed. My fiance is absolutely wonderful and is working his behind off to keep me in my meds as I don't qualify for any type of medical help here in IL as I do not have dependent children. I am in the slow process of filing for disability so at least then I might also be able to qualify for some type of medical help. I am tired of this life I am leading and just want to feel normal again! I do have a strong faith in my Savior--without that and the love and support of my family I think I would go crazy!.

      I am 46, engaged Mom with 3 grown boys of my own - My oldest has also given me a beautiful grandson, my middle son is in his last year of college - going into the ministry, and my youngest will soon be starting college for a worship leader and youth counselor. The middle and youngest also have a Christian band. They live in Indiana and have traveled all over playing different venues and for the last 2 years they have spent their summers in California performing and running the Xtreme tour. I will

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    • Close Depression
      : Clinical (Major) Depression

      I was diagnosed with depression due to the fibromyalgia and all of my back problems which then becomes a vicious cycle. I am depressed as I have no life and can do nothing. Everything from housework to groceries I have to have someone do for me. Even tho I am on Fentanyl, Norco, ultram, zanaflex, & celexa the pain never fully leaves or even becomes something I can tolerate. I have been on so many different drugs and one of the symptoms of fibromyalgia is the fact that your body is very sensitive to medications. This whole myriad of drugs to try and not work and to deal with some of the side affects from the meds increases the depression. The depression causes me to stress out over most things (& even tho I also take xanax for the stress it doesn't seem to do anything except keep me from biting off the heads of my loved ones. The more stress I carry the worse the fibromyalgia is as it feeds off of stress making the pain worse and the whole cycle begins again. Hopefully I will find the time to log in to this forum every now and then and just share with others who are going through the same situations as myself

    • Close Fibromyalgia

      to give and get help and support

      Treatments

      Cyclobenzaprine Somewhat Helpful
      flexeril worked for a small amount of time but made me sleep all the time (and with fibro you already have fatigue) but it wasn't a restorative sleep. Once my body got used to the med and it didn't make me drowsy any more, it didn't help with the pain or stiffness - just messed with my head and sleepwalk/cook/eat/chat on line with nonsense letters that meant/spelled nothing! when I did finally sleep and never remembered a thing
      Duragesic Patch Working / Worked
      use 75mg patch, works better than the 30mg x 2 daily morphine I was on but doesn't totally do the trick still take many meds for breakthru pain.
      Elavil Not Working
      didn't work, made me more depressed and FAT which is VERY VERY hard to lose
      Guaifenesin Working / Worked
      take mucinex-dm daily helps with the postnasal drip that started with the fibro and seems to add a little oomph to the pain meds. I can tell when I haven't taken it so it must be doing something
      Heat Working / Worked
      use it all the time- in fact my back is all mottled due to using it so much
      Lyrica Not Working
      tried this twice and my feet and ankles swelled up so badly that I couldn't even get my flip flops on my feet
      Morphine Somewhat Helpful
      When I moved and changed docs he took me off the morphine and put me on fentanyl which has done much better but still have constant breakthru pain
      Ultram Working / Worked
      was taking ultram as needed for headaches but doc didn't want to up my fentanyl or norco doses so added the ultram 4x daily and also upped the zanaflex dosage to 4x daily
      Vitamin B12 Not Working
      before I was officially diagnosed with fibro I was getting the b12 shots weekly but I never seemed to get any benefit from this.
      Zanaflex Working / Worked
      The only muscle relaxer that I have taken that has worked.
      Hydrocodone Working / Worked
      Was originally taking 8 a day when was on 30mg x2 daily of morphine. Started out with vicodin in 95 3 daily doctors wouldnt prescribe anymore until I went thru battery of testing in which of course ended up not revealing anything. After accident in 2006 was finally sent to pain specialist who could prescribe more for me. Doc now seems to think that the fentanyl should take care of most of the pain and refuses to increase dosage to at least see if it helps

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