Not fooled anymore!
September 22, 2009 10:37pm
I sent out the divorce papers yesterday. I am beginning to see his pattern of manipulation. He sent an email the other day explaining how …
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Cherie1
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About Me
Cherie1
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About Me
I am an Art Teacher with 2 children and an estranged husband. I have five cats and a dog. Oh, and my daughter has 2 rats.
I am an Art Teacher with 2 children and an estranged husband. I have five cats and a dog. Oh, and my daughter has 2 rats.
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Interests
Art and antiques. Music and drawing and painting. I love animals too! Especially cats.
Art and antiques. Music and drawing and painting. I love animals too! Especially cats.
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Recent Activity
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1 hug received, 1 journal comment
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Cherie1 commented on hairymick’s photo 7:19pm
Oh what a sweet boy. I'm so sad at your loss. Love, Cherie…
October 20
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Cherie1 gave boulosemile a thanks 5:43am
Thanks boulosemile! Hope all is well with you. Cherie…
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Journal
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confused and cautious
September 13, 2009 8:52pm
It's Sunday and weekends are always really hard. I miss him so much. My son wanted to have a birthday party for his favorite author …
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Facing filling out divorce papers
September 7, 2009 10:17am
I'm just scared right now. I know we didn't have the perfect marriage. I know he has done unconscionable things. I know he …
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next weekend
August 30, 2009 6:52pm
Something has occured to me today. He is afraid to lose her and has been afraid to lose me. I guess it has been a juggling …
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Sad and trying to move forward
August 16, 2009 9:23am
I just feel like writing. I find myself coming to this sight again and again.
My husband is a mystery and a mess. I guess what is …
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Close Infidelity
I found out, a year ago, my husband was having an online affair with a Russian woman when he received his passport in the mail one day. He had a ticket to visit her. I kicked him out and we reconciled all with in a week. He never went, until last weekend. He had never broken it off and has been lying to me about that and money. He has a job across the state so it's much easier for him to detatch from me and my children. I know there's no hope, I can't trust him. It hurts me very deeply.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- He isn't a good talker and had me convinced he was devoted to our marriage and I believed him. He recently admitted to lying in counseling that he broke off the relationship when he never did.
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- He's a lyer and so completed stomped all over my forgiveness
- Leave Working / Worked
- He found a job far away. I didn't think he could find a local one but maybe he could. It is making it easier for him to escape our life together.
Close Sex / Pornography Addiction
My stbx has admitted to being porn addicted for the passed 11 years or so.
Open Breakups & Divorce
I am beginning the divorce process.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- He lied in counseling and only told me a year later when he admitted to still being in contact with OW.
- Family Therapy Working / Worked
- I go and want to bring my kids soon.
- Forgiveness Not Working
- We are still divorcing. He has problems with internet porn, motivation, honesty and has done outrageous things.
- Leave Working / Worked
- It's the only way to gain perspective.
- Love Somewhat Helpful
- We love each other. That is confusing. It just isn't enough to fix everything.
- Music Working / Worked
- Pets Working / Worked
- I love my dog, 5 cats and rat!! Very much.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Reading Working / Worked
- Always helps for insight or distraction.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Everyone and anyone who will listen. People will surprise you with things you never knew about them and it will bring you closer to others.
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- DS!! Don't know where I'd be without it!!
- Talking Working / Worked
- On the occasion that we do talk it reassures me that it is his problem. I do however fear being hurt more or manipulated.
- Time Working / Worked
- I believe it works if you have distance and honesty with yourself.
- Physical Exercise Working / Worked
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