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About Me
GraceWeston
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About Me
I was with my now exhusband over 10 years, married for 4. I have children from a previous marraige. Once I became useless to him, he decided to get rid of me. I spent a month in the hospital, the emotioal scars heal as slow as the physical ones. We are divorced and it's not enough. It's not over until he says It's over.
I was with my now exhusband over 10 years, married for 4. I have children from a previous marraige. Once I became useless to him, he decided to get rid of me. I spent a month in the hospital, the emotioal scars heal as slow as the physical ones. We are divorced and it's not enough. It's not over until he says It's over.
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Healing my sons and my cat Anja
Healing my sons and my cat Anja
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You are welcome. having problems staying signed on to my im here. I will email you with more info. Big HUGS!
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A lot of the feelings that run through our mind like ' I know he will change, he said he would. He said we can do counseling. He said if I wouldn't have made him mad then he wouldn't hurt me. He said that he really loves me. He said it would never happen again.' The abuser has a way of brain washing you into thinking and doing whatever they want. And then if you don't do it or think it then you get abused. He accuses you of cheating when he is the one cheating and you get abused for it. He accuses you of doing drugs or drinking when he is the one doing it and you get abused for it. Any illegal thing he does, he pins it on you so he won't have to take the fall. He will always say that it wasn't his that he didn't do it or he didn't know anything about it. Because he will make it look like it is all your fault. You are his safety catch to him. You are his way out of doing bad things and getting away with it. They have a way of manipulating situations and brain washing you to think what they want you to think. But once you are out completely which is the hard part then the healing begins and you start to realize that none of it is your fault. None of what he did to you is normal. You become stronger mentally and physically and you are able to gain your power back. But the healing will take time. I've been there. My ex did it to me. I know all the ins and outs of how he tried to frame me and the cops knew better because they seen my marks. And when I decided to get out I did it on my own. And I never did go and get any help for my healing process. I did it and figured it out for myself of course I had God on my side too. And since I left my ex over 12 years ago, I still have nightmares and flashbacks. And he is still looking for me. But I am ready to face him when he finds me. Because he will not ever do to me what he did to me then and he will not ever even think about touching my family. He already got his 3 years of he**. But God help him when he finds me. Be safe and stay strong. Big HUGS!
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Good luck in your new home, I hope you'll be very happy.
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You're not alone.
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- He refused to go
- Forgiveness Not Working
- Leave Not Working
- He paid someone to hurt me horribly for this
- Pets Somewhat Helpful
- He's killed 4 of my 5 pets.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- gives me a place to vent
- Reading Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Not Working
- got a lecture about if I were a better wife he wouldn't have to hit me. My mom bailed him out of jail.
Close Burns
now=ex paid someone to throw gas and llight me on fire. 30%+ 3rd degree, multiple grafts
Treatments
- Skin Graft Working / Worked
- covered but bumpy
Open Physical & Emotional Abuse
Treatments
- Divorce Not Working
- Forgiveness Not Working
- Leave Not Working
- Psychotherapy Somewhat Helpful
