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DDyer (Yesterday)
Hope that you feel better soon.
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jdillard (08/18/09)
I'm sorry you're feeling so terrible! Is there anything I can do for you? I hope you feel better soon. Please let me know if you need anything! HUGS!!!!
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trulymadlydeeply (08/10/09)
oh hun, i'm really sorry to hear that. Are they giving you a hard time over the SI? x
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trulymadlydeeply (08/10/09)
Hey hun, how you doing? xx
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trulymadlydeeply (07/30/09)
Hey hun, sorry you aren't doing too good. How are things at home? xx
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myamore (07/30/09)
I am so sorry for your brother's accidental death. I too, felt guilty when my son was killed telling myself that if I had only called him and demanded that he come home. And when my husband died, I beat myself up because I couldn't remember asking him if he had remembered to get his meds. When I discussed my "what ifs" with my neighbor, he remined me that I "didn't answer to the name God". In other words, God has a plan for our beginning and our end and there is nothing that we can do that will change God's plan. PLEASE focus on the good times you had with your brother. I have also found that living in the moment - focusing on the here and now - can be very helpful (difficult at times but helpful). Take care,
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trulymadlydeeply (07/27/09)
Hey hun, how you doing? xx
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finishline (07/23/09)
As tragic as your brother's death was IT WAS AN ACCIDENT, not your fault. I know things are really hard on you now but cutting yourself is not the answer. Your parents have lost one child losing you could do them in for good. Not to mention what are you showing your little brother by hurting yourself? You need to get help someone to talk things out with. Don't let your brother's death be in vain, live for yourself live for him and most of all live for your parents. Just give things time. Everyone on here has suffered tremendous loss and this site helps us all by being able to talk our feelings out without being judged. I watched my niece cut into herself she almost killed herself, she got help and now is in college and has moved on to live and be happy with herself just like you can. I am here is you need to talk about anything. I don't judge.
Thoughts & prayers to you
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elnpreteacher (07/21/09)
Some times a simple hug can go a long way.
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trulymadlydeeply (07/21/09)
Hey sweetheart, how you doing today? Thinking about you. **BIG HUG** xx
Total Hugs
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