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  Bikeman (07/27/09)

  Gurl ya gotta live for yourself... Otherwise you forget who YOU are.
  That's thinking outside of the box for YOU.
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  bebita1971 (07/19/09)

  Thank you, I am slowly trying to figure things out, I really hope that my H will stop, I am praying with all my heart for the sake of our marriage & our two beautiful kids. I love this man & I do not want to loose him for this reason. I know distance has lots to do with it, I hope he will find a job closer to us & maybe he will not have the need to run & blow away money on weekends. He says it's becasue it's his relaxation & because he misses us too much, to kill the stress but it's only more stress to get a CC bill for $5,800 cash advace!!!Thank you for your words of support. Bebita
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  RedRidder (07/18/09)

  thanks
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  Scrooched (07/18/09)

  Good. I'm glad to hear it. I hope you're having a great weekend.
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  Amunoz (07/18/09)

  Hey there! Wishing you and yours a great weekend!
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  Scrooched (07/17/09)

  I hope you don't feel bad. i was just kidding you. I put up a picture temporarily when someone asks, but the web isn't as anonymous as some ppl think...
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  Bikeman (07/17/09)

  It's all about thinking outside the box, too boring to stay in the box, if you ask me...
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  Bikeman (07/17/09)

  Just the way I am...Thanks, enjoy your hubby, ;)
  oh, and your weekend.
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  bebita1971 (07/16/09)

  Thank you for your words, yes he thinks it's the money but it's the betray.He denies he has aproblem & won't even answer the phone even tough my tone of voice is not acussatory. I live thsi man, he is my husband, the onle I fell in love with, father of my kids & the person I choose to be my companion for life. I am hoping that due to the fact it's relatively new he might get out of it. What can I do with my sadness, my paiun, my insomnia, my weight loss, my tears, my desire to scream & run away!!! I am a mom I owe my sanity to the kids.I need to be storng & I do not know how.I hate that now because of vacation they are at home, they see me crying all the time, I can not even hide it anymore. I take my antidepressants daily but I know there is no miracle pill, I feel overwhelmed. So hard when I can ot have real conversation with him face to face.
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  Cantervilleghost (07/16/09)

  Amen, sistah! This is a goal I need to LIVE every day too. For me...it's a timing thing too. I have to learn to pick my moments for confrontation too....sometimes I write out what bothers me in and e-mail...that way I can speak my mind without being interrupted and minimized too. I tend to clam up then blow...so for me..it's speaking up before it gets to the ballistic phase! Well done...nice goal, SS Canterville

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