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adelheid
Female, GBR
"Six months have gone since I said my last goodbye on that fateful Monday morning and I still can't believe Richard is gone."
4:51pm Tuesday
On an ordinary Monday morning. Mood
Thursday, August 6, 2009 | A Poem/Artistic story

 

Richard

How can it be that we were parted

On an ordinary Monday morning?

You walked out in your workman blue,

Thermos full of coffee,

Ready to toil for another week.

But just one sip from your cup

And your brave heart stopped beating

And you left me.

 

You were a man of such simple pleasures –

You never asked for much

And you never put yourself first.

And I loved you.

I wanted to enjoy these autumnal years with you.

Nothing fancy

Just gentle companionship based on a lifetime of love.

 

But you are gone

And my world has ended.

I don’t want another.

I just want to be where you are.

 

 

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Comments

  1. lespreludes

    Margaret,
    What a moving tribute to Richard. I can feel all of your emotions, and your pain as well. My husband went into cardiac arrest on a Monday too, very suddenly, like your Richard. Life changed in an instant, and is not the same anymore.
    Blessings,
    Barbara


    lespreludes

  2. FallenAngel

    I couldn't have said it any better--sounds just like how I feel about Gene. It's beautiful and sad but oh so true.


    FallenAngel

  3. Shrn

    Such a beautifl dedication to your husband. Your feeling have been felt by all of us as we try to live a life without them. Sharon


    Shrn

  4. lindalun

    Margaret:
    I can feel your pain it seems like our husbands leave us too early and without a goodbye. Your tribute to him is so beautiful. I know that the pain we feel can only be understood by someone that has been there. It is a pain that cannot be explain and it always there eating at us. I love my husband and I miss him so much. Today is a hard day for me because my son was able to get into my husband's email and called me to see it. I had written him emails when he got sick and when he died I kept writing him and it brought back all the pain that I felt when he got sick and died. I miss him so much and just wish for one chance to hug him and tell him I love him dearly. He is the love of my life. Linda


    lindalun

  5. Barkerseggs

    What a lovely tribute to your darling Richard. I know he will read it and feel very proud of you. All my love Meredith


    Barkerseggs

  6. JulH

    I want you to know that I appreciate your expression of love for your husband. I lost my husband to a heart attack on 8/13/08. I have been feeling very low lately and I know it is because of the year date. I loved my husband and he also was a man who never put himself first. He was so giving. I do not know how I was so lucky to have married such a wonderful man. I have been truely blessed. But, now we live without them and life is so very lonely. I can't imagine being really happy again. I feel your pain and just know there are many of us lonely widows who grieve every single day. My heart goes out to you and many, many hugs to you! JulH


    JulH

  7. wizmo

    Thank you for the beautiful tribute and I feel exactly the same.
    My love of life is over now and can never be the same again. I just wish to be with Rich.
    Love always to you...Mo


    wizmo

  8. Christine26

    Hi Margaret that is beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Many hugs Christine


    Christine26

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