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  • About Me

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    Enterpryse

    Female, 45
    London, GBR
    Member since June 15

    • About Me

      Married mother of 3. Shy and introverted. Not working at the moment. Banker before having children. Love reading, especially the classics. Love classical music and regular exercise. Love different cultures, new challenges and new environements. Regular volunteer at charity events. Vegetarian, but buy meat for family. Hate: being shy and isolation. Need: real friends who understand when I just need to be quiet.

      Married mother of 3. Shy and introverted. Not working at the moment. Banker before having children. Love reading, especially the classics. Love classical music and regular exercise. Love different cultures, new challenges and new environements. Regular volunteer at charity events. Vegetarian, but buy meat for family. Hate: being shy and isolation. Need: real friends who understand when I just need to be quiet.

  • Recent Activity

    Recently:

    • 2 hugs received, 1 hug given

    Friday

    October 31

    • Enterpryse gave lavenderS a high five 6:33pm

      Wow that was quick S.! had just sent it. I am so pleased for the way things are going for you my dear…  
    • Enterpryse wrote a journal entry: stressful anxiety 6:30pm

      Have been working around the clock. Reawakened long lost friendship with adorable hubby. Things are getting…  
    • Enterpryse gave lavenderS flowers 6:19pm

      Pleased to hear everything is going well. Will always be here for you. E…  
  • Journal

    • stressful anxiety

      Mood October 31, 2009 6:30pm

      Have been working around the clock. Reawakened long lost friendship with adorable hubby. Things are getting better and better but it is hard work. …
    • Misunderstood

      Mood September 11, 2009 5:14pm

      Whatever happened today I may know one day. My son used to talk to me al the time and today he kept pushing me off. I could see the pain in his eyes …
    • Back again

      Mood September 9, 2009 9:14am

      Finally time to write my journal. I do not like when family members walk near here, this is my little space and I cannot share it with them. The …
    • After a long break

      Mood September 6, 2009 5:47pm

      Haven't had the chance to write and getting busier. Family first and me last. But not as usual. Found new love in my husband. He is all right …
    • Hols, Hols and more Holydays!

      Mood August 4, 2009 5:28pm

      This is great! Family and I are soon off on holiday to a few places; I love exploring new fields of vision and I also love "deja-vu". So …

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    • Thanks

      From barbdetroit Friday

      I appreciate, so much, the fact you remembered my birthday. Thank you for the well wishes....it was a great birthday. Love and Hugs to you E. Barb-Detroit

    • Congrats

      From SadSnow Wednesday

      Oh I'm SO glad things are going well for you! Very proud of you for trying! You go girl! Lots of love and hugs!
      audrey

    • Hug

      From lavenderS October 31

      Thanks alot dear E for the flowers, and your lovely kind words! I've not had much time to spend on the pc lately. Had Paul and the kids up for a few days, fun & games alright:) Had a super time, tho still recuperating...how do you do it, super Mum ?!!! lol, Do hope you are doing well, Love & hugs xxx

    • Congrats

      From lavenderS October 19

      So glad to hear you've been feeling much better lately, GT has been going well, it takes alot of energy & is very challenging, but it does seem to be paying off!!
      Have a great day my lovely friend xx

    • Chocolate

      From lavenderS October 17

      Some choccies for you sweetie, hope you're enjoying the weekend! xx
      I'm feeling pretty good at the mo :)

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Shyness

      I am a 45 old woman and I have been shy since childhood. I find the feeling of isolation that comes with being shy and introverted unbearable,and I am doing what I can to break free. My 12 years old son is devoted to me and has become shy; probably by seeing me shy away from good people as if they were bad. Would like to be stronger so as to be able to teach him that there is nothing to fear and that it is okay to be who you are, and that we all need friends.

      Treatments

      Psychotherapy Somewhat Helpful
      Have had expensive one to one talk therapy, and it has been mainly a waste of money. If there is one lesson that I leaned from here is: It is easier to talk to people if you first teach yourself how to relax. People will seem less hostile that way.
      Self-esteem Somewhat Helpful
      see self-help
      Self-help Somewhat Helpful
      Have tried several books on shyness, self esteem, conversation skills etc and found that they give very good advice. It can take a lot of courage sometimes to put that advice into practice; but it can truly work wonders.
      Socializing Somewhat Helpful
      Push myself to be polite and start a conversation with people when I tell myself that "today is the day"; when it works it feels like having a taste of what real life should be, sweet and joyful, it makes me feel valued and one of the crowd. When it doesn't work and people turn away from me because I sound too nervous/unnatural; it feels like having entered a black tunnel and I cannot find the exit. Overall the good times outweigh the bad. Yet the bad times make it harder to try again next time.
    • Close Anxiety

      anxious and shy. Changeable moods happy/sad/suicidal/hopeful

      Treatments

      Acupuncture Working / Worked
      it worked temporarily at calming my thought and my reaction. But it always wore out.
    • Open Loneliness

      In a large crowd I always feel lonely

    • Open Parenting 'Tweens (9-12)

      Parent of 2 boys in this age group.

      Treatments

      Education (School) Somewhat Helpful
      It always works in the end, but only after hours of frustration.
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      Not quite like a Saint!
    • Open Pre-menstrual Syndrome (PMS)

      Anxiety disordered during PMS it gets better when P is over but it is always present.

      Treatments

      Evening Primrose Oil Working / Worked
      not sure if it works but I still take it.
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