I hate starting off with "dear diary" it is so over rated, but its the only thing I could think of.
I have this friend who is happy in her marriage, but sometimes she doesn't know what to think about her husband. She says he is real supportive and is always there when she needs him, but she feels alone because he works nights and sleeps for most of the day. She has a daughter who, for the most part, is awesome to be around, and she has a best friend who she spends a lot of time with, but if she spends too much time with her, her husband says he "feels" like she is trying to stay away from him. She says thats not it, that she just lets him have his rest in a quiet place because he has trouble sleeping as it is. How is she going to talk to him about this and tell him its not him, she is trying to be nice.
Plus my friend, because of the ptsd, has NO desire to be with him sexually and this bugs the crap out of her and he thinks its him. Not everything is about him I tell her, its her and what she is dealing with.
Love always, A friend in need.





