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ripldm1luvmedford 
4:11pm, October 1, 2009
TODAY..... HAS BEEN A BAD DAY FOR ME. MY HUSBAND HAS 3 OTHER KIDS 2 BOYS BY ONE WOMAN AND ONE GIRL BY ANOTHER THE LITTLE GIRL IS IN WISCONSIN SO WE NEVER SEE HER. THE BOYS ARE IN FORT WORTH WHICH IS 3 HOURS AWAY SO WE RARELY SEE THEM BECUASE THERE MOTHER STILL WANTS TO BE WITH MY HUSBAND AND SINCE SHE IS SO CHILDISH, SHE WONT ALLOW HIM TO SEE THEM IF HE IS WITH ME AND NOT HER, SO HE JUST DOESNT SEE THEM. WELL I NEVER TALK TO THIS GIRL I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW AND TAKE WHAT SHE SAYS LIKE A GRAIN OF SALT, WELL IT WAS ALL GOOD... UNTIL SHE TOOK IT UPON HER SELF TO PUT ON HER "MYSPACE STATUS" THAT HER "SPERM DONORS WIFE IS A BABY KILLING BITCH"...WELL OF COURSE YOU ALL KNOW OR CAN AT LEAST IMAGINE HOW THAT WOULD MAKE YOU FEEL SO I WENT OFF, THEN I CRIED IT HURTS THAT ANYONE WOULD THINK THAT OF ME! EVEN IF IT IS SOMEONE SO STUPID AS HER.... I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THESE SITUATIONS OR WHAT TO SAY, MY HUSBAND OF COURSE IF FURIOUS, AND SAID SOME THINGS TO HER... BUT NOW HE CAN NEVER SEE HIS KIDS PROBABLY, I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH HER OR WHAT SHE SAID.... CAN ANYONE HELP?
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That is just so wrong...I think that what she wants is you to act all crazy and defend yourself...and you know thta you didn't do anything wrong so I would most likely just try to ignore her...and talk about a bi**h...sounds like she has some major trouble with that!
armmom
Oh, I am so sorry! It's bad enough that you probably feel guilty and that it is your fault, but for someone else to say it like, especially for everyone on myspace to read it, Oh, I'd be pissed, and driving to Fort Worth!!! That is just way wrong! Yeah, I agree with Audrey's mommy, just ignore that crazy B! I'm sorry about that, there is no reason anyone should say that about you!!!!
wandersjewell
wow- i am so sorry that your family has to deal withsomeone like that- i feel bad for the kids- that they have to be exposed to that awful behaviour.
leifysmormor
It is a shame she is using her children like that. Very sad for the kids. First thing I would do is not go on her My Space. You don't need to be upset like that and she probably knew you or your husband would read it. How can she keep the kids from him? There should be court papers in place with visitation. I can't believe some women use their children for leverage and then call themselves mothers.
nanny99
she wouldnt ever put him on child support because she new he would get visitation. The ast i heard on this situation she called a few weeks ago and told him that she wanted us to all meet in Kilgore on the 8th because shes realized that she has been a CHILDISH MOTHER so she calls herself, i cal her a worthess mother.... but anywho... and wants to try to come to some form of agreement to et him see his kids. So the family agreed but now under the circumstances i probaby will not go. hopefully i will be strong enough to eab him sooner than later
ripldm1luvmedford
To update everone on this, I am planning to leave and get out of this situation, i have made a plan where i should be safe and get out without to much confusion. It now is him holding the kids over my head since she said he cant see them if he is with me. I love these children, because they are children, but i doo not have to see them. And they both know this. So now he is being abusie to me because i am mad because for him to see his kids he has to pick up the kids AND the mother and spend the day with all 3 as a family, and i dont like that. and wont like it. Am i wrong for feeling like this?
ripldm1luvmedford