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ripldm1luvmedford 
4:11pm, October 1, 2009
Hi! How is everyone today? well i am making it, My husband and II have been talking alot about trying to have another baby....well we arent doing anything to prevent pregnancy, we just havent concieved agin yet. I was just wondering what is everyones thoughts on having another baby.... and for people who have already had another baby... How is it? I am so scared that i will be so afraid of loosing my next child, that id be too protective and drive everyone around me crazy. I know i have a 7 month old neice who is only 2 months younger than my daughter, and i baby sit her for my sister alot, and i hate absolutely hate when she takes naps b/c i am so terrified i seriously sit or lay beside her and watch her the whole time with my hand on her chest to make sure she is still briething.... so i am just worried that when/ if i do become pregnant i would be too scared, or afraid to be a mother, hopefully somebody reading this can understand what i am saying.... i guess i am asking when you have another child does the fear and pain get easier to deal with or is it still the same??? well thanks again everyone for reading!!
love,
Nae Nae's Mommy
Jordan Medford
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I would say that it is a totally personal decision...that only you can really make. For me, I'm at the point where I don't know if I ever want another baby...I do so bad...but my fear clearly outweighs my faith in being able to do it.
armmom
I understand how you feel, I feel the same way. I'm so scared to have another baby......I'm afraid of losing him/her. I think it's an amazing leap of faith at this point to have another baby. I too am at a point where I want another baby, but not really sure that I do. It's tough!
wandersjewell