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purplehearts
Female, 22, Cardiff, GBR
"Reflecting on the past few years, hoping to build a better life for myself and my son x"
4:38am, July 23, 2009

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    coffeelady (07/13/09)

    Thank you!! I feel like I am starting to get control back, and it feels wonderful!!


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    hkchallenge (07/13/09)

    Hi. First of all, I want to say how sorry I am for the loss of your beautiful baby boy. I just read your post on the SIDS board and wanted to tell you that yes, you did the right thing. My situation is a bit different but I had to take the same decision: my twins were born 15 weeks early and while my daughter died after 40 min, my son was for 2 days in the NICU. In the end, he was bleeding into his brain and the doctors told us that he would be a complete vegetable if he survived it. For the sake of his life, we took him off life support and he fell asleep for ever in my arms. It hurts more than anything, but we did the most beautiful and selfless thing for our babies. You are in my thoughts.


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    wandersjewell (07/12/09)

    How are you doing?


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    coffeelady (07/09/09)

    I hope you are ok. I haven't heard form you in quite a while. Please let me know how you're doing.


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    MyAngelAiden (06/30/09)

    Your very welcome. I am new to this site and I have read through your journal and I think you are an incredibly strong woman and I wish you all the luck you deserve. Keep your head up and know you not alone. I hope you had a good day.


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    MyAngelAiden (06/29/09)

    I have read your story and my heart aches for you and your family. I am at a place where I feel God makes no mistakes and his will prevails. II lost my son so quickly, from the time I found him to the time they gave me the horrible news he was gone...but you were placed in a position to feel as if you were one in charge. I think you loved your child so much and you were only a vessel in what was to happen. You were strong, and this burden you should not carry. For what ever reason we lost our children and we were left behind to pick up the pieces, but know God made you his mother and that was not in error...and the decision that was placed upon you was really not your own...remember what is to be will be..we don't know why it happens to us, but we have to understand it is bigger than all of us. I hope this helps...day by day, that is how I take it. God Bless you.


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    wandersjewell (06/26/09)

    How are you doing?


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    sami51 (06/16/09)

    Its so sad....I feel so terrible for you. You are in my prayers.


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    coffeelady (06/15/09)

    Thank you so much for your kind words. You seem like the only person on here who really gets where I'm at. I really do appreciate your friendship. I hope you had a good weekend and are taking care of you.


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    coffeelady (06/12/09)

    May you find peace in knowing that your son is lying with the angels. May you find hapiness in knowing that one day you will join him.
    I am so very sorry for your loss. It makes my problems all seem so insignificant. Take care of you and your child. Love, CL

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