she is still there and tells me if I act rite she will stay there until she moves-I took the kids out of town so they wouldn't have to watch their mother move out
Thursday,Friday Saturday and tomorrow, told the oldest first-16 and in pieces, told the 14 yr old later-he is still thinking about it but has said he thinks, well he just hasn't decided yet but has always had a it'll work out attitude-and he is rite, it will-its not like this is terminal cancer
the 12 yr old is really about 10 maturity wise and his mother has always babied him so I am worried-hey guys:
she told me she would move out-just get her stuff and go-she has plenty of family and a storage space to hold everything she wants-I have begged her to stay, lets make it work-twice she has said she would and 24 and 48 hrs later she said she just can't and here we go again
so I am through begging, through negotiating, through everything and when she said " just let me go" I said "bye" but she won't go-said it'll take 3-4 weeks to close on her house? for her to move-she has already agreed to joint custody-she can't afford them anyway and they know, they know who takes care of stuff-all the stuff where we live now-
anyone know this trick? Any hints? Anyone seen this behavior before?Can I get a woman's perspective?





