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PJsmom 
3:57pm, May 31, 2009
I just can't believe it. I've been trying to get the Worcester County DA's office to investigate this girl that acussed my son of raping her, well, you'll never believe it, I finally got a response! They are going to do it, I want this girl to pay for what she did to my son. he did not do this thing and I want the stigma removed from his name. I don't want people to think that he committed suicide because he was guilty, he did it because he was scared to go to jail for something he didn't do. I don't blame PJ for what he did, I blame this girl and her mother(my sons girlfriend at the time), and I want them to pay dearly, I want them to hurt as bad as I do. I suppose I sound vindictive and maybe I am, but I lost my son and it's not fair that she should be able to go on with her life as if nothing happened. She's a damn liar and I want retribution. let them feel some of the pain that I have, although it won't be nearly as painful as what I'm going through. PJ, someway or somehow I will clear your name. I love you with all my heart, and if it takes until my dying day, I'll fight for you.
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I am glad the authorities will be investigating. May you find some closure and peace with this part of your heartache soon. Hugging you tight as you await the outcome. But know this, whatever the findings, your son lives in pure love and knows only love and can communicate in only love. Focus on the love darling and let your heart heal. Hugs and love, Teri
RememberKala
I cannot imagine the heartache that you feel about your son being unjustly accused. That must be so frustrating and heartbreaking on top of the grief of losing your son. I hope that his named can be cleared and that it does not drag out forever. I do hope that these women realize and are remorseful for causing your son and ultimately you so much sadness. Love and hugs...Karen
biowoman
I am so pleased that you finally had a response. I hope that it can be settled and PJs name will be cleared soon and that can bring you some peace. Love and hugs, Charlotte.
FJsMum
Glad to hear that you got a response from them and they are going to investigate and clear PJs name. My heart goes out to you and I hope this is cleared up fast and will bring you some peace. Hugs, Kim
KimRW
I know it's going to take time, we all know the judicial system takes it's time, but at least it's a step. And I have my friends here at DS for the moral support I'm going to need during this time. It'll bring alot of painful memories, and I'm sure alot of lies on their part, but I'll get his name cleared one way or the other. Thank you all for your support and belief. Love to all of you, Bev
PJsmom
Praying for justice for your son and you too. I don't think that it is being vindictive to want justice and these women to suffer, I would want the same thing. One day these women will have to stand before a greater judge than an earthly one and know that there will be a payday for them.
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Debbie
deborahd
I pray that there will be a swift outcome and I hope clearing your son's name will bring some sense of peace. I also pray your heart will be softened and in time you will not feel such anger and hostility. I know those emotions can consume a person. I'm sure I would feel the exact same but I know causing others pain won't erase yours. I agree with Debbie above, if I were these women, I would be more fearful of the ultimate judgement. Love to you. Robin
Robin4
My son, Michael, spent 3 years in prison for sex that he never had with an underage girl. I know all about it! Oddly enough, the years in prison were easier than being on that "Sexual Offender List" (a failure and a joke, but popular with voters). The false sense of security that this list has created is much worse than the facts. I just "chalk" your story up to yet another heartbreaking outcome of a justice system that is totally screwed up! After my son died and I found out that they had removed my boy (who loved kids so much and wanted one of his own) from the hated "LIST", I looked up into the sky one day and told him that you are finally off of that list that kept us from moving away. And maybe saving his life. Unlike you, I hope the best for the young lady involved (who never wanted to press charges, it was only her mother). I have no feelings whatsoever for her mother, only to wonder what would she think if she knew that my son died. That he died being on this stupid, ineffective list. Michael hated that thing! Lawmakers, politicians and even the police know that the "List" is a complete failure but are at a loss at to what to do, since to speak out about it's failures is to lose votes. It is all politics. It is estimated that between 85% to 90% of sexual offenders are relatives or other known people to their underage victims. All a gal has to do these days is yell rape or accuse someone of harming their child, and even if you do not do time in jail, you will be on the "LIST", which is the same as a lifelong sentence. They cannot live anywhere, cannot raise their children, cannot go to PTA meetings, cannot go to their children's ball games, cannot take them Trick or Treating. Worse of all, they cannot provide a good home for their children in most states since they are chased out by residency restrictions. The "good law abiding" citizens post signs in their yards saying that a sexual offender lives there and rocks are thrown into their children's windows. The kids are ostrasized at school. What have we come to? I am old and back in my day, all this did not happen if a 19 year old had relations with a 17 year old. But it is a new age that we live in. Best wishes on clearing your son's name but please konw that there are people out here who understand~Hugs
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