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chelly6 
2:22pm, May 12, 2009
well ive been away on holiday for 6 weeks, yes 6 weeks me the kids and my hubby.the weather has been great warm sunny a lovely relaxing time.hubby landed in hospital a couple of times but still got him back to rest and enjoy our time away,he is getting really poorly now but is fighting hard,well will this be our last holiday as a family i dont know but if it is well i know all the kids and me and my hubby has got good memories of it and loads of photos,our older ones well they are 18,19,and 20,there work let them have the time of so we could be a family so int that lovely of them.i am typing this now looking at my hubby thinking my god i love you,and im gonna tell you when you wake up,i know he will give me that smile saying love you to,i do think why why us its hard coping but i will always be smiling,underneath i dont but i just want more years but dont think im gonna get them now so the weeks months ive got im gonna be greatfull
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it was fathers day this weekend,so i loaded up the car imagine this my hubby is still asleep remember.the concentrater the portable oxygen his medication the clothes the kids all quiely sneaking around like a little mouse i was.
i woke my hubby did you sleep ok i said, yes he said why i didnt wake you did i,no i said we are going away i said everything is done all you have to do is get in the car i said,well the shock on his face was amazing it just lit up the whole room,well come on i said as i got him to the car the kids shouted happy fathers day xx.
well it was hard work but i can say we all had a great time it was nowhere special only the seaside but it was special to us xxx
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Congratulations Chelly for creating a memorable Father's Day. EVERY day can be as special as we make it!! I had a special day also with lunches at my daughter's house and again, late in the day, at home..... Grandchildren were present at both "functions" with their gifts and good wishes.
Every day CAN BE special!@!!!
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What a lovely thing to do! No doubt you are enjoyed your day out.It seems strange for someone to refer to the beach as the seaside, its 34 years since we left the UK, so we have now adopted a lot of the Aussie mannerisms.
its been so nice the weather is getting warmer so that helps these last few days my hubby has been feeling better still very tired but colour back in his face and eating better.its just so lovely seeing him like this,one day at a time thats all i want and this one good day has been great.
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I understand your "one day at a time" viewpoint... isn't that all any of us really has?? Weather has been rain, raian and more rain here for the past couple of days...which doesn't help with the breathing, really. Had to walk a distance yesterday in that rain and didn't feel all that great when I reached my destination. I hope your husband continues to feel better....please convey my best wishes......
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hi ya,sorry to hear that all you have seen is rain,poor you hope it brightens up soon for you,and walking in it as well hope you dont get the chills or come down with anything.something so silly like getting caught in the rain,can have a big impact on your health,hope you are feeling better last time you was worried about all the signs coming back again,how are you doing
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We too have been having some welcome rain lately. Yesterday it was sunny but very cold and today it was beautiful. I got out into the garden and planted a few plants and my husband sat outside in the courtyard (with his oxygen) for a few minutes. Unfortunately he feels the cold so could only stay a little while.
That is how we are living our lives, one day at a time, some days we don't say a lot to one another, but know the other one is there. A touch of hands, a brief kiss and a welcome hug.
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Chelly, your comments brought a tear to my eye.....so hard to think about the future, isn;t it?? I wish you and yours well...please enjoy each day..........I need to take ,my own advice probably, but.........................................
ALL the best......
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